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Okay, so I started college a month and a half ago, and about 3 weeks ago I was having a really horrible morning and this guy (ill call him E) looked at me then looked down and gave a huge open smile, I fell immediately. So the week after I was walking to the bathroom and he let out the loudest sigh and then after class he actually came up and talked to me, he laughed and smiled at my dumb jokes and he always kept eye contact with me and then he did the thing where he acted like he didn't hear me and leaned in closer and said "hmm?" Still keeping eye contact the whole time, then the next week our eye contact was strong and we were smiling at eachother the whole class. But the previous two times he purposely avoided eye contact, looking at the ceiling and not talking to me after class besides "see you on Thursday" he said this with his back turned to me. And then yesterday I explained at the end of class some personal problems with the teacher and he overheard and explained that he went through something similar and to remember my worth, we actually have a lot of similar things we went through so after that conversation and became brave and i scooted over to him very closely (which he didn't back away from) and told him to open his hand and gave him my friendship note with my number with my origami swan I made him he smiled and laughed and took and then I left the room before him so I don't know what he did with it. And I'm just patiently waiting, what do you guys think? What do I do? P.s. He acts nervous, rubbing his neck, and not speaking as loud as usual and when talking to other classmates his body faces me, I'm nervous I've made him uncomfortable.



Submitted October 12, 2023 at 12:09AM

Okay, so I started college a month and a half ago, and about 3 weeks ago I was having a really horrible morning and this guy (ill call him E) looked at me then looked down and gave a huge open smile, I fell immediately. So the week after I was walking to the bathroom and he let out the loudest sigh and then after class he actually came up and talked to me, he laughed and smiled at my dumb jokes and he always kept eye contact with me and then he did the thing where he acted like he didn't hear me and leaned in closer and said "hmm?" Still keeping eye contact the whole time, then the next week our eye contact was strong and we were smiling at eachother the whole class. But the previous two times he purposely avoided eye contact, looking at the ceiling and not talking to me after class besides "see you on Thursday" he said this with his back turned to me. And then yesterday I explained at the end of class some personal problems with the teacher and he overheard and explained that he went through something similar and to remember my worth, we actually have a lot of similar things we went through so after that conversation and became brave and i scooted over to him very closely (which he didn't back away from) and told him to open his hand and gave him my friendship note with my number with my origami swan I made him he smiled and laughed and took and then I left the room before him so I don't know what he did with it. And I'm just patiently waiting, what do you guys think? What do I do? P.s. He acts nervous, rubbing his neck, and not speaking as loud as usual and when talking to other classmates his body faces me, I'm nervous I've made him uncomfortable.
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