Unmatched with a girl I liked on Hinge, I have her number and we met up, how should I explain the unmatching if she brings it up?

So I was 100% certain she blocked me in iMessage, because of how annoying and drunk I was (4-5 times drunker than her) on the first date. It's hard to overstate how bad the impression I gave was and I didn't fully remember everything I said.

She also said she was a morning person and previously texted in the morning. So when the message box was green I assumed block. Additionally, I thought I left such a bad impression that I don't want her to be able to reverse image search on Hinge, or report me, or and screw with me on another platform or find my info. So I unmatched to hide my profile from her.

Turns out she actually replied in iMessage later that day... so I laughed my ass off at how stupid and paranoid I was. If it turns out she actually still likes me how should I explain the unmatch



Submitted April 20, 2023 at 01:15AM

So I was 100% certain she blocked me in iMessage, because of how annoying and drunk I was (4-5 times drunker than her) on the first date. It's hard to overstate how bad the impression I gave was and I didn't fully remember everything I said.She also said she was a morning person and previously texted in the morning. So when the message box was green I assumed block. Additionally, I thought I left such a bad impression that I don't want her to be able to reverse image search on Hinge, or report me, or and screw with me on another platform or find my info. So I unmatched to hide my profile from her.Turns out she actually replied in iMessage later that day... so I laughed my ass off at how stupid and paranoid I was. If it turns out she actually still likes me how should I explain the unmatch
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