Coincidence or some kind of sign? (lesbian advice needed)

Okay, so sit down for some lesbian drama.

About a year ago, I was dating when I went to a nightclub with my girlfriend ( at the time my relationship was ok). There we met a group of people and there was this girl (let's name her "N") and it was her birthday. I felt nothing much, I just thought "N" was really pretty but I didn't really think of any kind of attraction whatsoever. She was with a group of friends and I was with my group and gf as well and our groups kinda vibed, anyways... Since it was her bday(N's), she said she wanted to kiss a girl. I said I would help, totally trying to be friends. When we were inside, we crossed paths at a certain point, I asked her "hey could you find a girl to kiss?" she said she hadn't, so I said that I would help and then I asked her "What kinda girl are you into?" and THEN I KID YOU NOT She put her hand on the fucking wall beside me and basically ate me alive and said "Someone kind of just like you" TOTAL gay panic because that's the kind of attitude I love and my gf at the time had never had but in the end I just told N I dated and all, and I really helped her kiss someone later that night. After that I let that go and we never talked again.... 5 months later I was still dating but my relationship was kind of shaken.. we went to the same nightclub and AGAIN I randomly meet this same girl and she's all flirty with me. She comes up to my ear and says "oh you're STILL dating?" besides that she was flirting all the time and I liked it so I kinda went with it and felt very guilty for that. I was trying to BEG my girlfriend for attitude and attention and she wasn't giving me any so I think it felt good to have someone want that... Anyways, again nothing happened but GUESS WHAT. Five months later again (few days ago), I'm single now (important detail) I was going to another club and I kinda gave up because my friend wanted to go to another one. I went there, I managed to get in before the line moved because I really needed to use the restroom, so when I get out of the cabin WHO IS LOOKING AT HER FCKING REFLECTION IN THE MIRROR? EXACTLY, N. My gay ass almost melted but this time she is the one who's dating A GUY and again there was so much flirtatious energy and sexual tension but again nothing happened. Why the heck do we keep meeting like that and getting this intense tension if one of us is always unavailable. Is it just coincidence? what the hell is all this attraction coming from between us/???? I have rarely ever if ever felt this much attraction before. DOES IT MEAN ANYTHING?????? Opinions plsssssssssss.



Submitted March 14, 2023 at 12:15AM

Okay, so sit down for some lesbian drama.About a year ago, I was dating when I went to a nightclub with my girlfriend ( at the time my relationship was ok). There we met a group of people and there was this girl (let's name her "N") and it was her birthday. I felt nothing much, I just thought "N" was really pretty but I didn't really think of any kind of attraction whatsoever. She was with a group of friends and I was with my group and gf as well and our groups kinda vibed, anyways... Since it was her bday(N's), she said she wanted to kiss a girl. I said I would help, totally trying to be friends. When we were inside, we crossed paths at a certain point, I asked her "hey could you find a girl to kiss?" she said she hadn't, so I said that I would help and then I asked her "What kinda girl are you into?" and THEN I KID YOU NOT She put her hand on the fucking wall beside me and basically ate me alive and said "Someone kind of just like you" TOTAL gay panic because that's the kind of attitude I love and my gf at the time had never had but in the end I just told N I dated and all, and I really helped her kiss someone later that night. After that I let that go and we never talked again.... 5 months later I was still dating but my relationship was kind of shaken.. we went to the same nightclub and AGAIN I randomly meet this same girl and she's all flirty with me. She comes up to my ear and says "oh you're STILL dating?" besides that she was flirting all the time and I liked it so I kinda went with it and felt very guilty for that. I was trying to BEG my girlfriend for attitude and attention and she wasn't giving me any so I think it felt good to have someone want that... Anyways, again nothing happened but GUESS WHAT. Five months later again (few days ago), I'm single now (important detail) I was going to another club and I kinda gave up because my friend wanted to go to another one. I went there, I managed to get in before the line moved because I really needed to use the restroom, so when I get out of the cabin WHO IS LOOKING AT HER FCKING REFLECTION IN THE MIRROR? EXACTLY, N. My gay ass almost melted but this time she is the one who's dating A GUY and again there was so much flirtatious energy and sexual tension but again nothing happened. Why the heck do we keep meeting like that and getting this intense tension if one of us is always unavailable. Is it just coincidence? what the hell is all this attraction coming from between us/???? I have rarely ever if ever felt this much attraction before. DOES IT MEAN ANYTHING?????? Opinions plsssssssssss.
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