A CRUSH ON MY COUSINS BEST FRIEND.

Am from Kenya currently working in Dubai for the last almost 5 years now. My cousin has come up here a couple of times to visit but this time round she brought her besty with her. I know her besty and her family, it's been a while since the last time I saw her. When my cousin told me she is bringing a friend along I didn't think it was her until I met her. On Friday I was off work so I call my cousin up told her I was gonna drop by and say hi and we catch up a little. I reach there, I go up to her appointment I walk in and there she was. I looked at her her besty and asked my cousin who she was and she told it's (LO) Amma call her that. She came over gave me a hug I was still in disbelief cause this girl had grown up in to fine sexy gorgeous young woman, I couldn't keep my eyes off her. After a while we started talking to some family members and my big brother goes ahead and asks me if I found someone or dating. I told no then him and my cousin started looking at LO and me then smiling. I asked them what's up and they just answered like stop searching cause she already next to you. Without hesitation LO goes ahead and grabs my phone and starts typing her number. Her and I chill out at the balcony catching up with everything she asks how long since I dated and told her almost 5yrs. I went directly to the point and asked her what she thought about dating and if she would be interested in dating me. She was down for it and said she would give a try. Today evening we were chatting and then she hit me with this line "you know you are like a brother to me". This line I can't stand it, I still haven't responded to her yet because there is no come back from it. I'm really into her and I want to actually date her. So how do I go about it and make her know that am for real and interested in dating her and for her to stop seeing me like a brother to her?



Submitted June 26, 2022 at 01:15AM

Am from Kenya currently working in Dubai for the last almost 5 years now. My cousin has come up here a couple of times to visit but this time round she brought her besty with her. I know her besty and her family, it's been a while since the last time I saw her. When my cousin told me she is bringing a friend along I didn't think it was her until I met her. On Friday I was off work so I call my cousin up told her I was gonna drop by and say hi and we catch up a little. I reach there, I go up to her appointment I walk in and there she was. I looked at her her besty and asked my cousin who she was and she told it's (LO) Amma call her that. She came over gave me a hug I was still in disbelief cause this girl had grown up in to fine sexy gorgeous young woman, I couldn't keep my eyes off her. After a while we started talking to some family members and my big brother goes ahead and asks me if I found someone or dating. I told no then him and my cousin started looking at LO and me then smiling. I asked them what's up and they just answered like stop searching cause she already next to you. Without hesitation LO goes ahead and grabs my phone and starts typing her number. Her and I chill out at the balcony catching up with everything she asks how long since I dated and told her almost 5yrs. I went directly to the point and asked her what she thought about dating and if she would be interested in dating me. She was down for it and said she would give a try. Today evening we were chatting and then she hit me with this line "you know you are like a brother to me". This line I can't stand it, I still haven't responded to her yet because there is no come back from it. I'm really into her and I want to actually date her. So how do I go about it and make her know that am for real and interested in dating her and for her to stop seeing me like a brother to her?
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