Confusing signals

Hey hey, I am sure to the objective person this will be clear as day, but to me it’s not. Me (F32) and this guy (M31) hooked up about 3 months ago. What happened after was pretty regular texts from him and VEEEERY regular booty calls every weekend night. I did not always engage, because duuuh I have a life. But after some hookups and cuddles, naturally some chemistry started to happen. He brought it up that he thinks we are on different timelines and that he would like to see me more and date. And even though I am in a phase in my life where I wasn’t looking for that, I said that I’d be open to see how that would go as I like him. Afterwards, he was very affectionate and texting for a few days then noooothing until a booty call that I ignored. Couple days later had a brief convo and I did some emotional offloading (never texting reactive again) and he responded to some of it. Then again nothiiiiing. Until, you guessed it - booty call. I told him no more booty calls, I’d rather be with someone who actually likes me. He went on to write lines and lines of how he likes me but doesn’t know how to show and he needs to- bla bla bla.

Told him to text me when he wants a sober conversation. It’s been a week, he hasn’t. Edited to add: He said that that is something he would do.

Question: Let it go? Ask one last question, like wtf is going on dude? Wait longer?

I see that his actions dont align with words, but he’s also been super kind when together.

Edited to add a sentence.

Submitted May 20, 2022 at 11:56PM

Hey hey, I am sure to the objective person this will be clear as day, but to me it’s not. Me (F32) and this guy (M31) hooked up about 3 months ago. What happened after was pretty regular texts from him and VEEEERY regular booty calls every weekend night. I did not always engage, because duuuh I have a life. But after some hookups and cuddles, naturally some chemistry started to happen. He brought it up that he thinks we are on different timelines and that he would like to see me more and date. And even though I am in a phase in my life where I wasn’t looking for that, I said that I’d be open to see how that would go as I like him. Afterwards, he was very affectionate and texting for a few days then noooothing until a booty call that I ignored. Couple days later had a brief convo and I did some emotional offloading (never texting reactive again) and he responded to some of it. Then again nothiiiiing. Until, you guessed it - booty call. I told him no more booty calls, I’d rather be with someone who actually likes me. He went on to write lines and lines of how he likes me but doesn’t know how to show and he needs to- bla bla bla.Told him to text me when he wants a sober conversation. It’s been a week, he hasn’t. Edited to add: He said that that is something he would do.Question: Let it go? Ask one last question, like wtf is going on dude? Wait longer?I see that his actions dont align with words, but he’s also been super kind when together.Edited to add a sentence.