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What’s the point of their lies?

I’ve been seeing a girl for about 6 months. We’ve traveled a lot together and spend every single night together and are seemingly very close. We both agree that we are just friends and sleep together. There are periods of time that she doesn’t get back to me like she usually does and I’ve noticed marks on her from another guy she’s seeing many times. We talked about not being exclusive and that was fine and that we would tell each other if we were sleeping with anyone else but she is lying about being with somebody else actively and gets defensive if I mention anything about the bruises, scratches or hickeys on her body and immediately starts deflecting and acting like I’m crazy for assuming. She also tells me that I don’t want a relationship with her and tries to make it seem like it’s my fault but I would’ve been open to the idea at one point if she he wasn’t lying about seeing another person and deflecting. It’s all very odd. She seems very sweet and considerate and does go above a...

How to get over rejection and move on?

I was rejected by a girl that I liked after having lunch with her, and I don't feel so good right now. My brain kept time-traveling to that day on what I did wrong. I still remember the day I was so happy that I finally have the courage to approach a girl in person and ask her out. For the first time in my life, I felt that I might have a chance. Maybe I said something during lunch or was too desperate. I just can't stop thinking about it and it's like a downward spiral. I just wanted to move on and be a little bit happy. But I don't blame the girl at all, she treated me with respect and dignity. Replied to my texts to turn me down within a day instead of ghosting me. At least something good happened in this scenario. Submitted January 09, 2024 at 12:11AM I was rejected by a girl that I liked after having lunch with her, and I don't feel so good right now. My brain kept time-traveling to that day on what I did wrong. I still remember the day I was so happy t...

He told me I « go out a lot »

So I’ve (22yo f) been seeing this guy (28m) for like 5 weeks, and we’re really independent, both of us. We didn’t see each other for like one week cause he worked a lot and I had things to do. He goes out sometimes to see some friends, and I do too. And just to be clear, I love my friends, and sometimes I’ll go and stay at their place for a whole week end, because my house is very toxic to me, I don’t speak to my family. But I always make sure I see him too. (All my friends are girls) I spent New Year’s Eve with him. Yesterday he went out with some friends, and I met an old friend at a restaurant. And today was his rest day, he didn’t call till late evening, and asked me what I was doing, I told him I was invited to a dinner at my friends family. He then told me « you go out a lot, you’re always doing something » and I told him « what you want me to stay at home all week ? » then he said « yes » in a « joking » way, he was laughing while saying ...

I am look for a boyfriend in idaho falls idaho

I am a 23 f look fir a 24 of 25 m in idaho falls I like to hunting and fishing and camping I am like for a man that like the same things Submitted January 09, 2024 at 12:15AM I am a 23 f look fir a 24 of 25 m in idaho falls I like to hunting and fishing and camping I am like for a man that like the same things

Single for 4 years

Hey guys so I'm a 19F, and have no luck with finding men who want a relationship. I'm always complimented about my physical features and how pretty I am but all men want to do is hookup. I'm never just asked on a date. I'm only approached by guys who are attractive but I'm not attracted to, and if I am by one I'm attracted to they just want to hook up? I've been told I can be intimidating? Do I need to hookup to get a bf? Or maybe I'm just girl pretty but I have no luck and I'm getting frustrated here!!! Any reasons why? Submitted January 08, 2024 at 12:16AM Hey guys so I'm a 19F, and have no luck with finding men who want a relationship. I'm always complimented about my physical features and how pretty I am but all men want to do is hookup. I'm never just asked on a date. I'm only approached by guys who are attractive but I'm not attracted to, and if I am by one I'm attracted to they just want to hook up? I've been...

/u/demon_fae on My coworker tricked me into eating a tabs chocolate

He did knowingly drug OP . That’s a crime all by itself. (Rest of post spoiler tagged for discussion of SA) >! Put it this way: say he’d roofied OP, then decided not to go through with the assault. He’d still go to jail for the roofie, because that’s a crime all on its own. (Picked specifically because it’s actually a legal drug: it’s a prescription sleep aid that is commonly abused. So having/ingesting it isn’t a crime. Slipping it to someone is.) !< >! That OP’s only side effect was an afternoon of severe distress doesn’t actually matter. Also, a good lawyer could probably argue it into sexual assault, since the express purpose of the drugging was to force OP into a sexual encounter. It would take a good lawyer, though. !< January 06, 2024 at 11:09PM

Would you cancel a second date because of a stye on your eyelid?

There is some swelling of the left eyelid. We were supposed to get together tonight but I asked to meet tomorrow instead. Not sure if it’ll be gone in time. Submitted January 06, 2024 at 12:13AM There is some swelling of the left eyelid. We were supposed to get together tonight but I asked to meet tomorrow instead. Not sure if it’ll be gone in time.