Hey, i was on a birthdayparty last week and this boy I’ve been just friends with flirted the hole time and he asked me to come to his soccer game next week. I like him and I would like to go out with him, so is this a sign that I should ask him out ? I also don’t wanna ruin the friendship when he doesn’t see me this way Submitted December 25, 2023 at 12:10AM Hey, i was on a birthdayparty last week and this boy I’ve been just friends with flirted the hole time and he asked me to come to his soccer game next week.I like him and I would like to go out with him, so is this a sign that I should ask him out ? I also don’t wanna ruin the friendship when he doesn’t see me this way

Hi all, i am a 36 year old virgin and really get made fun of for this. I am interested in women and i am attracted to fair women. I have tried talking to women at bars, coffee shops but nothing seems to work. I think i come across as unattractive at bars as women aren't interested in a conversation when I try to strike it. I don't have much time as I am working on multiple jobs so I don't have much time to give to hobbies. But I work out daily and I am physically fit. My height is 5 ft 7 and i am slim. I am shy and I am really fed up of me still being a virgin. I have very few friends. I am trying to get advice from hiring a Wingman but I am unable to find someone for it as i want it in person. What can I do to as i am feeling hopeless. Please be positive in your responses, thanks! Merry Xmas 🎄 Submitted December 25, 2023 at 12:13AM Hi all, i am a 36 year old virgin and really get made fun of for this. I am interested in women and i am attracted to fair women. I hav...

I (35M) have been seeing a girl (36F) for around 3 weeks. We met on a dating app and after a bit of chatting we met up for a coffee. The vibe was very nice since the start and all felt natural. For the second date we met in the afternoon for food and we stayed together until late for drinks and ended up at my place for chats (no sex). For the third date we had dinner at my place and she stayed over; we ended up having sex that night. The day after she asked me to go to the cinema, which we did, but straight after the movie the vibe was suddenly different, colder I'd say. We were supposed to go for dinner, but she said that she was feeling tired and wanted to go home (fair). The days after the movie date I felt that she wasn't engaged that much when we were texting. As we used to text eachother normally, I sent her a text on a frieday evening, nothing really important, but she didn't answer at all until I texted her again on the next Monday morning. At that point I was alr...

Here comes a shitty header and sorry for whiny post below. I want to ask for advises (hoping for serious advice), as I'm in an unique situation where anyone who know me, read this and will know this is me. Maybe I'll even get backlashes since it's reddit(mercy please) In context, I (F 33) met a guy(M 30)through at least 3 coincidences which lead to us meeting in an dating event (singles event which I didn't emwnt to join)we attended. During the event and after we found more coincidences and similarities in hobbies (we like manga, anime etc). We went for first date 1 week after, I thought it went well. He already told me his goals in relationship (only serious, married for love aft dating 2yrs and have kid by what age etc) which the timeline I might not be able to meet (more into it later) At first I wanted to keep my option open and date more guys since I was out of dating scene for 6yrs and felt it just feel crazy if I just go for the first guy who approached me. B...

If a girl who is in a relationship knows that a guy likes her (from the way that he is looking at her when they are in the same place, by liking her selfies/stories etc) and it is pretty obvious that he is waiting to shoot his shot, if he hasn’t done it already, why not to hide her stories from him or unfollow him (they both follow each other)? In order to make it clear that she doesn’t want him to flirt her or to make an approach. Also if you knew that someone likes you why to look at him multiple times in a very intentional way? Isn’t that kinda flirty? I think that despite being in a relationship she acts like she wants to be approached. What’s your opinion? Submitted December 24, 2023 at 12:14AM If a girl who is in a relationship knows that a guy likes her (from the way that he is looking at her when they are in the same place, by liking her selfies/stories etc) and it is pretty obvious that he is waiting to shoot his shot, if he hasn’t done it already, why not to hide he...

I'm very repulsed; I would definitely be uncomfortable seeing anything like that. December 22, 2023 at 11:48PM

We’ve been texting for a couple of weeks and she said she trusts me and said I had a great personality, which she was looking for in a guy. We’ve shared pics and everything but she recently went through a break up and said she needed time to think because she was afraid of going into a new relationship. I told her that I respect that decision and I also appreciate the honesty, but whatever decision she makes it, I made it known that it is hers and I eon’t say a thing. In the end she told me after confessing that she didn’t refuse the idea of us being together, but also wants to go slowly through the decision and even brought up voice calls instead of text. Do you guys think there might be a chance? If there was a chance, how do I not ruin it?( I’m really afraid of ruining it and I really really like her. ) How do I move on with this, what should I discuss with her over the phone? Submitted December 22, 2023 at 12:12AM We’ve been texting for a couple of weeks and she said she t...