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/u/Brytnie_p on What made you stop questioning if you're ace?

Realising that sex isn't for everyone December 02, 2023 at 11:16PM

/u/baldflubber on Confused on the definition of asexual

You are sex averse. While it is not uncommon that asexual people are also sex averse or even sex repulsed, those things are not the same. December 01, 2023 at 11:23PM

/u/paperthinwords on Having a social life as an ace person - tips & advice

I still have my fair share of creeps. Being a woman that comes with the territory unfortunately. I have resting bitch face and friends have told me they thought I was a bitch or intimidating before meeting me lol I think for those more reserved, it takes a lot more work to seem approachable. It’s not impossible but if that’s what you want, you’ll have to work at it and go out of your comfort zone more often than not. Networking could be a way to make friends! There are so many avenues where the baseline is just meeting people which ultimately is the first step. December 01, 2023 at 11:23PM

/u/EducationalDrink26 on So close, yet so far

To be fair, the doctor doesn’t care about your sexuality, they mostly care if you are having sex at all and generally how, to better understand the medical care you may need. December 01, 2023 at 11:13PM

/u/EducationalDrink26 on Just seems like this doesn't take into account anyone who's in an ace relationship...

That’s good but everyone is different, my parents are the healthiest relationship I’ve ever seen and they spoke to me about the importance of intimacy, emotionally and mentally growing up. And my husband and I are the healthiest couple among our peers and we definitely make sex a priority. That’s doesn’t mean we have it everyday but it’s an important part of our relationship and we try not to neglect it. It’s gotten harder and harder to do that but it’s important to us. December 01, 2023 at 11:09PM

/u/-mothling on Asexual retail workers, do certain products embarrass you?

I work book retail so no sex products, but we carry books on sex and have carried Penthouse mags in the past and i've always been one of the least awkward of my coworkers with them because i just mostly Don't Care. So if a customer leaves a penthouse in the men's bathroom or something i'm fine taking it and throwing it away, when other coworkers get really upset/grossed out. Only times I feel a little embarrassed are when a customer spends forever looking through sex books or there was a time when I checked out a coworker who was buying a sex book and I felt a little awkward haha. November 30, 2023 at 11:14PM

/u/Mission-Lie2068 on How are you guys’ experience on dating apps?

You’re welcome! :) November 30, 2023 at 11:12PM