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/u/SaveMySelfHarmWife on Sex Therapy

NO!!! It was worthless. My wife and I have some complex sexuality issues (asexuality and hyposexuality). The so-called sex therapist doesn't understand asexuality at all. His suggestions caused far more harm than good. The solution: my wife went to a clinic specialized in LGBTQIA. The gynecologists there immediately had useful suggestions she had been missing for years. I assume the same clinic would likewise know what to do for men's issues. February 08, 2023 at 02:03AM

Help I (24F) am dating my ex (25M)

I (24F) am dating my (25M) ex boyfriend again after being broken up for a little under 5 months. We dated for over 4 years and were planning on moving in together and getting engaged (his decision). He ended our relationship abruptly and it was definitely a blindside. After we broke up we texted every day and we kind of fake dated again a few months later for a month before I decided that I needed more. After that we stopped talking for about 1 month. I blocked him on all social media and ignored his many attempts to reach out because I was just so heartbroken. We are religious and with that I have found myself praying a lot about it all. I decided after not speaking for a full month or seeing each other for two, I would reach out to have an honest conversation however that ended didn't matter. We decided that we would try to work towards being back together again, very slowly. It has been going well. We agreed to see each other once a week and we text everyday. He seems more like...

Am I a loser for not having sex?

Hey all, my ex (F20) slowly started to move away from me (M24) and started dating other guys and having sex with them. I have tried to do the same but is hard to get girls interested in me. Recently we had a fight over text and she told me how I am a loser because I can't have sex with anyone and it really hurt me. I am mostly focussed on my hobbies and career, I go out once a week to meet someone but I've been unsuccessful for more than 3 months of trying. I've been to only 2 dates that friendzoned me. I believe I am handsome and charismatic, I don't know what's wrong with me. For her is so easy but for me is hard. I prefer going to events in person because I have never got a date with online dating Submitted February 08, 2023 at 01:01AM Hey all, my ex (F20) slowly started to move away from me (M24) and started dating other guys and having sex with them. I have tried to do the same but is hard to get girls interested in me.Recently we had a fight over tex...

/u/MyOnly_Account on Did anyone irl recognize you’re wearing an ace ring?

Kind of. I was telling my friend in college that I was reading a book on Aceness, and I told him about my ring and he said "I know". He said he has had Ace friends, so he knew about the rings, but maybe didn't assume about my reason for wearing it. February 08, 2023 at 12:09AM

Thoughts on this experience?

I've been talking to a girl for a few weeks now. She is genuinely extremely busy with first year university, final exams, and work (I'm on a gap year.) She is rarely active on any social media. She seems decently interested but also seems overwhelmed. I tried not to be messaging her too frequently and never double texted but she started to seem less and less interested. I basically told her I would give her some space and that I didn't want to interrupt her studying and whatnot and that if she wanted she could message me when she wasn't so busy. She was appreciative of this in an interesting way. Her message conveyed that she liked the idea of talking later and that she is happy that I'm giving her room to focus on school, work, etc.. but nothing direct. I've basically decided that I wouldn't message her until she messaged me. Thoughts anyone? Submitted February 08, 2023 at 12:28AM I've been talking to a girl for a few weeks now. She is genuine...

Just met this girl, advice?

I officially met this one girl, who is in my class, at a party this past weekend. Prior to that, we spoke like a few words to each other about the assignment since we were partners for like a minute. Besides that, we don't talk at all in class. Well at this party, I see her and go up to her to ask and confirm if it was her in my class, we talk ask the basics, where are you from, what major, year, etc. Then after that she immediately asks for us to take a picture since she said she likes going to parties to take pictures. We took a few but she said they were alright lol, I agree I looked a bit goofy. I was also confused of her wanting to take pictures if we literally just met. She seems cool so far and I'm thinking of asking her out/to hang out but I don't know if it's too early or whatnot. She also sits next to me so it could be awkward if she says no. And I'm not sure if us taking pictures together is necessarily a good thing(can't be a bad thing) or her way...

/u/wzm971226 on Can someone help me understand how you can be asexual without being aromantic? 🫤

just watch kids friendly romance movies. all about love and no mentions of sex. literally most of the fairy tales are like that. they just live happily ever after.... without sex. sure, sometimes they have children, but they could all be adopted February 07, 2023 at 12:34AM