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Getting mixed signals from longtime friend

I (25M) have a crush on my long time friend (27F). I caught feelings kind of quickly when we met back in 2012 but for the longest I had never said anything about it. A few years back in 2017, I told her about how I felt and she said that she didn't return the feelings and was put off at that time due to her own views/prior experiences with romantic relationships. Fast forward to 2019, and we stop talking to each other for a while (nothing really happened to cause it or anything, it just sort of happened), outside of saying happy birthday to one another, or the occasional messages in our group chat with friends we didn't directly talk to one another. She randomly messaged me back in September, and ever since we started talking again on a near daily basis. I got her a present for her birthday, and since it had been at least 3 or 4 years since we'd seen each other, we just sat in my car and shot the shit for a while. She was being very touchy, patting and rubbing my back, pl...

/u/Alive-Ad-9236 on Is your style (clothing, hair, makeup etc) influenced by your Ace-ness?

I don’t think so. I feel like I’m probably perceived as looking "straight". My style is almost exactly what you described as "sexy" but I don’t really dress that way to look like that. I guess I just find that’s what I look best in and am the most confident in. I do have shorter hair but it’s just a bob so not too short. However, I would say that I don’t shop to stay in one style, I just buy what I like. I have some funky sweaters and tops for sure but I almost always wear some sort of makeup. January 07, 2022 at 12:22AM

Why do I want the girl I can’t get?

Before I tell the story, keep in mind that I had almost 0 dating experience before all this, so all these feelings are new to me. In the beginning of October I (M22) met a girl, let’s call her ‚Z‘ (F19), and we went on 3 dates in 5 weeks, which wasn’t quite enough for my liking and she often told me that she is busy learning as she just started going to university and I believed her. 2 weeks after our 3rd date she left me on read after I asked for another date. I have to admit that this fucked me up and made me sad for like 2 weeks as she kinda was my first real dating experience, but I eventually got over it. Fast forward to December, I met another girl, ‚S‘ (F21), and we hit off very good, going on 3 dates in 10 days (we are still dating) and everything about this girl is better than the first. (She lives way closer to me, is closer to my age and way more mature than the other girl, shows way more interest in me as a person and also in meeting up) Now in the end of December, ‚Z’ ...

/u/tempogod on Do we have any Greek aces here?

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Secure

What are some examples of feeling secure in a relationship Submitted January 07, 2022 at 12:10AM What are some examples of feeling secure in a relationship

Guys to date vs Guys to hookup/ ONS

Is there a difference between guys you would prefer to date and guys you prefer to hookup with. I am sure there are guys who you won't mind hooking up with but won't date? But is the other way true as well? Someone you won't mind dating but won't hook up with.. Question origin: Some girls prefer to hook up with "Hot Guys" but then won't mind dating someone less "hot" but who brings other things on table like personality, status etc Submitted January 07, 2022 at 12:10AM Is there a difference between guys you would prefer to date and guys you prefer to hookup with.I am sure there are guys who you won't mind hooking up with but won't date?But is the other way true as well? Someone you won't mind dating but won't hook up with..Question origin: Some girls prefer to hook up with "Hot Guys" but then won't mind dating someone less "hot" but who brings other things on table like personality, status etc

Taking a female friend out for her bday on a Sunday and need ideas

Hi, I'm taking a friend out to dinner on a Sunday night but am looking for an after dinner activity that is fun and am struggling to think of something for us to do. Please help!! It's just for two people around 30 years old. Looking for some sort of fun activity after 8-830pm until possibly 12am. Thanks! Submitted January 07, 2022 at 12:15AM Hi, I'm taking a friend out to dinner on a Sunday night but am looking for an after dinner activity that is fun and am struggling to think of something for us to do. Please help!! It's just for two people around 30 years old. Looking for some sort of fun activity after 8-830pm until possibly 12am. Thanks!