When people tell me they want kids, I'm just gonna start saying "you'll change your mind" so they know how infuriating it is. November 30, 2021 at 11:03PM

Luckily my brothers both had kids and are both on their second round. My parents are fine with me never wanting kids, especially because they agree that the world is too messed up November 30, 2021 at 11:02PM

So, we're at a milestone, and I'm so, so glad. We've been through everything, even losing a child together (FYI I do not recommend eclampsia-bp goes up, mum goes to the er!) I'm intending on ordering sushi, giving him as much beer as he wants and the kids are at my (beloved) MIL for the night. He's a very vanilla kind of man, but I would love some ideas to knock it out of the park for our anniversary! Pertinent info- he's had a vasectomy, so no worries. Anal is good for him to give but he doesn't want to receive. I'm a little overweight- chubby, not obese. Honestly, it doesn't even need to be sex, even pleasant seduction and foreplay ideas would be grand. I know there's tons out there we haven't tried! Hoping for new ideas to make my sweet man happy. Submitted December 01, 2021 at 12:29AM So, we're at a milestone, and I'm so, so glad. We've been through everything, even losing a child together (FYI I do not recommend ecl...

TW: sexual abuse This is a really long post, but I need help. I was groomed by my stepfather. He only ever did light touching, but he made sexual comments about me and my body and told me his preferences, made comments like he wished he was my age so he could date me, etc. I am very sensitive surrounding consent. My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months and consent has been an ongoing issue, but there are things that I think are common sense. There are 2 things that really bothered me. The first, is we had been sexting and I asked him to come over, but I fell asleep. He began taking my clothes off in my sleep, and I was half awake just trying to cuddle, before I woke up and told him to stop. We discussed it (it happened 2 months ago) and I asked “other than our conversation 30 minutes prior, what was I doing in that moment to make you think I was enthusiastically consenting?” He mentioned cuddling and I reminded him that cuddling doesn’t equal sexual consent. And Then I ...

I wondering for quite a while, and I fought this subreddit would give me a good answer. Submitted December 01, 2021 at 12:53AM I wondering for quite a while, and I fought this subreddit would give me a good answer.

Context: Me (M25) and my wife (F25) have been together for a little over 2 years. She is introverted and I’m a mix but mostly extroverted. I have had many (20+) sexual partners and I think she has only been with like less than 10. So to the point our sex life is slow already we have sex like 2-3 times a month. When we do it’s either her on top and then missionary, missionary then doggy, or just straight up missionary only. I am a very open person and have been trying to figure out what exactly like she’s into or that she likes (tried asking what she likes and she deflected with “idk whatever you like”). She says she likes choking but I think she only says that cause it’s like the go to “norm” and I would to do more and improve out sex life. I enjoy literally just pleasing her like I love just anything that involves her having a good time. We don’t have a problem with orgasms it’s every time for the both of us. But I want to give more and push past our limits in a sense. But I just fe...

I’ve posted about this before but I want more peoples opinions on it. I can only masterbate by squeezing my penis between my thighs while laying on my side. I’ve been doing it like this for about 5 years. I’ve never came from actually “jerking off.” Jerking off feels good but I use it more as a foreplay before I actually finish off with my legs. I’ve recently been scared that whenever I have sex with someone I won’t be able to cum because I’ve become so acquainted with this way of masterbating. People have told me that I have something called “death grip.” Basically I need advice on how to get rid of it. I keep trying to stop masterbating but the urges are too strong sometimes. I’m scared, what should I do? Submitted December 01, 2021 at 12:58AM I’ve posted about this before but I want more peoples opinions on it. I can only masterbate by squeezing my penis between my thighs while laying on my side. I’ve been doing it like this for about 5 years. I’ve never came from actually “...