So basically, without being prompted, this girl said she isn’t interested in a committed relationship with me. I never asked her for that. And I confirmed that she is romantically into me, attracted to me, and enjoyed her time with me. She just has a lot going on (she told me the few things that are overwhelming her but I don’t want to share). She says we can still talk and maybe hang out if she has free time. But I can tell already things are different. She’s not as energetic or as excited. I doubt she will initiate like she did in the past. I don’t know what the right answer is here. I know she likes me. I know I like her. I just wish she would tell me the right answer. All I could do is just lay out a bunch of options. She told me she knew all that and that she just wasn’t interested right now. She has only really given me short answers since she brought it up. What is the play here? Submitted November 27, 2021 at 01:05AM So basically, without being prompted, this girl said ...

I don’t understand why he’s doing this to me So my boyfriend and I have been together for eight years, we have a child together and have lived together for all of those eight years. We both work in the adult entertainment Industry, myself more than him as it’s my full-time job & I am very successful with loyal followers on onlyfans, he has a corporate job for his main income. *(so me being in the sw industry has never been an issue-) So here’s the what’s been going on- a few months ago I found out he’s been using pictures off of my phone(ones I’d never post because they are extremely unflattering and” pretending to be a female with my body’s on Reddit/Twitter/kik.. he will post really unflattering pictures of me in groups and ask them to degrade/humiliate me- , some are pictures of my stretch marks, others are really unflattering naked pictures, some are screenshots of videos(I’ve posted to onlyfans) where my body looks terrible for a split second as I change positions.. he know...

I am a young teen boy with anxiety and stress issues and I like this one boy in some of my classes. He is openly gay, so I don’t have to worry about that, it’s just that I can’t talk to him as my mind shuts down every time I am in the same room as him. Also the fact that he is “popular” and hangs out with this one girl who I think hates me because I tried to correct her on misgendering me on a paper she had to write. (It was some icebreaker thing we had to do in Language Arts in the first week of school). How do I talk to him? Submitted November 27, 2021 at 01:07AM I am a young teen boy with anxiety and stress issues and I like this one boy in some of my classes. He is openly gay, so I don’t have to worry about that, it’s just that I can’t talk to him as my mind shuts down every time I am in the same room as him. Also the fact that he is “popular” and hangs out with this one girl who I think hates me because I tried to correct her on misgendering me on a paper she had to write. ...

To preface this: I have never had a bf, gone on a date, first kiss, etc. Nada. I was just never interested in dating and I’ve always put my education first. Now onto the problem: So there’s this guy (25M) that has somehow weaseled his way into my life. We have very long phone calls and I’m not used to this AT ALL. I don’t really call anyone except for my parents and best friend and I don’t even have 4+ hour long calls with them. We’ve talked about hookup culture (both find it yuck), the future, kids, if his parents might have a problem with me being from a different culture and vice versa, etc. (Idk if this is normal because we’ve only really talked for a month and a half.) I also have a very rare skin condition that I used to be bullied for, especially by boys. Now, idgaf about what people think and I don’t hide myself to make others comfortable. But I knew that would be a hinderance in finding someone romantically. So I made up my mind in high school that I would get a sperm donor...

Title says it really. I really am at a total loss for where to start dating or finding someone I am compatible with. I find myself with fewer options than ever. The past 3 years have been a downward slope for me. I used to have a good job in wealth management, groups of friends i saw regularly and reasonable social life with travelling etc. Then I started losing friends as they paired off and dissapeared into their gfs lives, ditching our friend groups (happened to 4 of my friends), my social life wittled down to maybe a pub trip once every 2 months and lockdowm has destroyed what was left. Lockdown also cost me my 10 year job which was a social outlet and i now work from home by myself. On top of this my mother passed away last year from cancer and i no longer hear much from that side of the family. I now work by myself, live alone and the only people i see are my brothers and sometimes my dad. With a total of say 2 visits a week. I am pretty much alone all of the time. To go fr...

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You’re all right, the problem here is that I am dumb November 26, 2021 at 11:46PM