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Itchy vagina after sex? (Not am sti)

I often find after sex my putter vaginal lips quite itchy, it's not STI related. Has anyone experienced this? Submitted November 14, 2021 at 12:35AM I often find after sex my putter vaginal lips quite itchy, it's not STI related.Has anyone experienced this?

Worried that my (20F) libido will be effected after IUD

I’m (20F) pretty worried that my libido will be effected after getting an iud, as I have a pretty high sex drive and would like keep that. However, I’d like lighter periods and less cramping. So hormonal iud is my best option. Submitted November 14, 2021 at 12:40AM I’m (20F) pretty worried that my libido will be effected after getting an iud, as I have a pretty high sex drive and would like keep that. However, I’d like lighter periods and less cramping. So hormonal iud is my best option.

Do women, in general, want to be pursued during courtship?

I’m a 22 year old man in the northeastern US. I’m rather new to dating, and the experiences I’ve had in the past were quite unique and unusual as I later discovered. Im now dating a new woman. We’ve gone on a couple dates that went alright. On the second, I decided to initiate some light physicality, since she wasn’t initiating. I figured she wanted me to make the first move. We held hands for a while, then I asked if she wanted to kiss in my car, and she said no. I left it there. This woman is not very forthcoming about physical intimacy, where the women I’ve dated in the past were very forward. My question is whether most women prefer to be passive and let the man initiate physicality? Do they want intimacy to happen to them, as opposed to making it happen themselves? Submitted November 14, 2021 at 12:43AM I’m a 22 year old man in the northeastern US.I’m rather new to dating, and the experiences I’ve had in the past were quite unique and unusual as I later discovered.Im n...

For females, curious...

M(46), Perhaps I'm thinking about this the wrong way... I'm currently in a relationship and really everything is fine but I curious if... Is it just guys or are there some women that fantasize about "porn" sex? For 8nstamce, never in my life have I been deepthroated. I have a variety of fantasies but, I've never asked a partner to experiment in that way. Im nervous it may cause issues... I think for me I work to proactively please my partner thinking I'd get the same on return. I've never actually run into a female who was exceptional at oral sex, really enjoyed it, almost wriley smiling knowing what she can do, and really seems to love experimenting... Of course I'd want to know what she would like so I can be a part of her fantasies but she doesn't bring it up either. Sex is always the same, it does feel good but just curious if females have similar fantasies? Do females generally seek to fulfill your guys fantasies and if you do or don...

Should I visit him or hope he makes effort

I’ve been texting for about 3-4 weeks with a guy I met on Bumble. He was initiating almost all conversations and repeatedly mentioned he wanted to meet me. He lives about an hour north of me and due to “circumstances” we haven’t been able to easily drive to each other’s towns. However he also hasn’t directly requested a date, just said things like “we need to meet!” and “I wish you lived closer!!!”. After about 2 weeks of texting daily the frequency SUDDENLY dropped. I don’t think anything I said threw him off, we had actually had a very fun conversation just before he stopped texting often. So in a few weeks I have a chance to drive north to his town. I have mentioned this to him and he seems happy to meet me. But the enthusiasm level never really came back up after the sudden drop off. TLDR My question is: does it seem I am chasing him if I come to his town, instead of him making more effort ? Submitted November 13, 2021 at 11:56PM I’ve been texting for about 3-4 weeks with...

Never had a girlfriend

I've (23M) never had a girlfriend. Haven't dated , haven't had an close , intimate relationship. I've been always nitpicking different attributes of girls that I like and crossing them off my mind rather than actually trying to work something out. Now it has come to the point that I've realized that I need a girl in my life. It's not social pressure but rather self realization. But I'm confused as to how I should start. Even though there are plenty of pretty single girls in campus, I don't know how I could get to start a decent conversation and get to know that person closely. Submitted November 13, 2021 at 11:57PM I've (23M) never had a girlfriend. Haven't dated , haven't had an close , intimate relationship. I've been always nitpicking different attributes of girls that I like and crossing them off my mind rather than actually trying to work something out. Now it has come to the point that I've realized that I need a girl in ...

Can’t talk to girls, 24 years old

Uhhh embarrassing to post this but here it goes. 24 year old male and of course kissless virgin, not only kissless, hugless and handheldless. My interactions with women can be described as basically no interaction my whole life and completely zero after 18 (no friends who are girls, yep, zero). I am wondering how to fix this. I have zero confidence. I used to be super obese until 20, and now I’m still not in shape. I’m working out hard but my body is a slow responder so it will take some time to get into really good shape, where I hope my confidence is better. But for those in similar situations (if this is even common), what are some things I can do to fix this? It’s only going to get harder from here I feel. Submitted November 14, 2021 at 12:01AM Uhhh embarrassing to post this but here it goes.24 year old male and of course kissless virgin, not only kissless, hugless and handheldless.My interactions with women can be described as basically no interaction my whole life and ...