I've finished reading over the documents. There are a couple things that get my attention from a logical perspective. The document makes logical assumptions like how it assumes that high rates of unfounded reports equates to police mishandlings. It also claims that unfounded reports are the same as false reports. If this were so, that would mean that the woman in question would likely be criminally charged, yet they never mention this detail. Regardless of the interesting read, I will still hold my opinion that turning to vigilante justice is not the correct answer as it creates other victims and there is no way to know who is guilty and who is innocent on the side of the accused. Anyhow, I thank you for being one of the few to provide me with interesting reading material on the subject of discussion. August 07, 2021 at 01:00AM

I have literally never heard of this phenomenon. Is this a young person thing? When I dated, I only ever called them by their names, and vice versa. No one ever made a fuss. The one time I was called "babe," I had a visceral reaction, authentic cringe, and I said don't ever call me that again. I am not your babe. That's gross. I have a name, please use it. I also have never heard my friends gush over pet names, nor has a single married couple in my adult life gone around with pet names. Maybe in private they do that, whatever, but most definitely not all the time August 07, 2021 at 01:00AM

Hey, you’re still valid. Your desires to not have sex are yours to be respected. Like others have said, I think if you had a civil conversation about this with your partner and explain your wants, it will be for the best. That does come with the chance of the relationship ending, but the best types of relationships are those where both partner accept the other for who they are without wanting to change them. It will be an ultimate test of who this person is. I wish you all the best 💛 August 07, 2021 at 12:55AM

I do. Usually I use animated or drawn (as in, not live-action) porn, other times I'll use erotica or literature. Occasionally I'll use my imagination, but that takes up brainpower and is often distracting; visual/written media keeps me on track, if that makes sense. But it really depends on the mood I'm in and what I have access to when the horny strikes. How frequently I do it definitely depends on my stress levels and amount of free time, but generally it fluctuates from once every couple weeks to as often as a few times a week. I am the same way as you, where the stuff I think about/consume is hot in my head but not appealing whatsoever outside of it. If you're interested, there's a microlabel you might related to: aegosexual. There's even a subreddit for it! August 07, 2021 at 12:55AM

i literally felt rage reading this hhhh August 07, 2021 at 12:52AM

don't watch it lol August 07, 2021 at 12:48AM

It depends on the person, I suppose. I’m OK with having sex, so we do, and I’d be crushed if he wanted to sleep with someone else. Honestly, I think if he had a super-high sex drive, we wouldn’t have ended up married — he would’ve been frustrated before then. August 07, 2021 at 12:46AM