Since my last relationship dating has been going poorly. Just... so. many. first. dates. I've relaxed my standards way beyond where I started. I've decided to just go ahead and relax them to 1) good person and 2) there is a universe in which I could see us having sex. I don't want to continue living my life alone. I'm a little overweight but on the whole I'm a good looking guy. I have interesting hobbies, strong values and I emphasize giving back. But since that's apparently not enough, the other thing I have going is that I've been professionally successful and have a seven figure net worth. Other than dressing well and wearing a nice watch this isn't something I outright talk about IRL. But I'm assuming there are plenty of people who prioritize financial security or maybe people who have had a difficult time getting by who this would be a big plus for. At the same time, I'm not looking for a sugar baby situation. So I'm not really sure h...

I(20M) been seeing this girl(19F) for a few months. We met in a friends' party and i thought she was amazing so i texted her a few days later to get to know her. We texted a lot and got to know each other very well i guess and i fell in love with her for everything she actually is. We used to meet each other a couple times a week but i never made any move nor did she, i like to have everything settled down before i make the move since i've had some previous relationships that were hurtful. Anyway, 3 weeks ago after we met, I said I wanted to talk to her, i had to make the move since it wasnt bearable for me anymore not to say anything and i confessed my feelings towards her. I asked her to be honest, if she didnt like my just tell me, it's fine, i just wanted to know where to go from there with my life. She said the problem wasnt in the feelings she had for me, because she liked me as well, but the future and what she's going through right now. We discussed the future...

A month ago I left my girlfriend because she was being controlling and it began to take its toll on my other relationships with friends and family. I learned a lot about myself. I took a month of reflection, and I began to wonder if it is possible for someone like me to ever find someone compatible. I came across this movement called MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way), and although depressing, it made me realize how some of my relationships fell apart. When I realized that there was some truth to it, I read more about it. And was depressed to find that members of MGTOW adamantly believe that men should not date women. This made me lose a bit of hope. I'm a pretty independent person, and while I like having romantic relations with women, I often find that they don't allow me my own time or space at all. I don't know if that's just how all romantic relationships are? I spend pretty much all of my time indoors because it's cold where I live. So maybe it's just the re...

Allo here. Everyone is different, but I was certain I was allo/hetero by the time I was 16. March 21, 2021 at 11:59PM

What section are these in at Walmart? March 21, 2021 at 11:56PM

I believe in marriage in the sense that if two people love eachother, and want legal rights to each others assets, they can and should get married. I also believe when having children, it’s better to be married in the sense that the child has two legal guardians and a stable family structure. I’m not religious, but I can also understand marriage in the religious sense. That being said, I believe legal marriage is a system that is being severely abused and needs to be revamped. I am a firm believer that if someone decided to get married, it’s a contract for life, and divorce should be considered a last resort, except in the cases of abuse. So many people use the system of marriage to gain citizenship or tax benefits when they don’t deserve it (I understand a lot of people use the citizenship and tax benefits to pull themselves out of a bad situation, and I can sympathize with them, but see it as an issue with the immigration and tax system that needs to be addressed. Marriage here is ...

Eh. I'm agender, and I have a brother, so not completely a girl's club. Also, my brother is straight, and so are my parents. I think they're a little bewildered that their family turned out so queer, but they're very good allies. March 21, 2021 at 11:54PM