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Is it too soon to be indulging in doctor / patient roleplay or is it just sexy enough to embrace our anxiety?

I have a huge medical fetish, naturally getting my boyfriend to pretend to be a doctor inspecting me (thoroughly, of course) for any medical problems, especially given how dangerous this virus is, is something that will get me going. Hell, it's getting me going now. Of course, I also think it's just too soon. Or is it? Maybe next year once we're in the clear? Submitted April 15, 2020 at 12:23AM I have a huge medical fetish, naturally getting my boyfriend to pretend to be a doctor inspecting me (thoroughly, of course) for any medical problems, especially given how dangerous this virus is, is something that will get me going. Hell, it's getting me going now.Of course, I also think it's just too soon. Or is it? Maybe next year once we're in the clear?

Can’t feel my partner during sex

I (25M) can’t feel my (24F) partner during vaginal sex for more than 2 minutes. My penis is pretty average, 16 cm long with 12.3 cm girth. She gets aroused and she is super wet, there is little to no friction after a couple of minutes. I have an average hand and I can almost put it all inside - we are close to fisting but we can’t quite do it because there simply isn’t enough space. Is she too loose? Am I too small? Is she too wet? I made her cum a couple of times during sex so I figured that she must feel something. What would be a solution here? She’s a great person to be around and I do not want this to ruin our relationship. Submitted April 15, 2020 at 12:24AM I (25M) can’t feel my (24F) partner during vaginal sex for more than 2 minutes. My penis is pretty average, 16 cm long with 12.3 cm girth.She gets aroused and she is super wet, there is little to no friction after a couple of minutes.I have an average hand and I can almost put it all inside - we are close to fistin...

What's the Hierarchy of relationship lingo? AKA "Hey who's that?"

Basically when someone were to ask you what a person's relationship is with you. Just seeing if people see it the same way. Thoughts? Ex. What I think (from lowest to highest) "Hey who's that?": -"oh that's just a random stranger" -"oh yeah that's [name]" -"oh that's [name] they're pretty cool/cute" -"we've talked a few times" -"we've gone on like one date" -"we're talking" -"we're dating" -"i'm seeing them" -"we're seeing each other" -"we're exclusive" -"we're in a relationship" -"we're official" or "that's my bf/gf/etc." -"we're engaged" -"we're married" -"we share a bank account" -etc. Submitted April 14, 2020 at 11:57PM Basically when someone were to ask you what a person's relationship is with you. Just seeing if people see it th...

Dating programs?

Some guy was trying to sell this one program to me and idk it seemed... sketchy. Has anyone ever tried to sell you a dating program? Submitted April 14, 2020 at 11:59PM Some guy was trying to sell this one program to me and idk it seemed... sketchy. Has anyone ever tried to sell you a dating program?

Quarantine Romance??

So I started speaking to this guy at the start of isolation and we were talking for 3 weeks, it was very clear we were both romantically interested in each other. He lives a good 3 hours away from me so that was somewhat of a problem but he mentioned his ex lived further away from me so distance wasn’t a problem. Things were going well but we were meant to call 3/4 times but each time I brought it up he’d either find an excuse and the final time he said yes and then disappeared and we haven’t spoken since, it’s been 5 days. I know he’s watching my stories on social media but he hasn’t messaged me or even come up with a reason as to why after saying he would, disappeared. His lack of effort was always a bit of a red flag and obviously I don’t expect anyone to know what’s going on inside his head. I just assume he’s lost interest and it’s a shame because I still like him but I don’t understand how he can go from really liking me to not talking- I haven’t messaged him either but that’s m...

Advice for a 25F virgin who’d like to finally enter the dating world despite mental health?

I’ve had anxiety and depression for as long as I can remember but I’ve hid it fairly well and often am “friendzoning” guys because I just never felt comfortable with myself and intimacy. I’ve clearly waited long enough and I’d like to try some online dating (I’d rather meet someone in person but I moved to a new city and going out alone isn’t really my thing). How do I let someone know that I basically have zero experience? I match with so many attractive guys and I have always been too scared they won’t like me once they find out. Any tips?? Submitted April 15, 2020 at 12:10AM I’ve had anxiety and depression for as long as I can remember but I’ve hid it fairly well and often am “friendzoning” guys because I just never felt comfortable with myself and intimacy. I’ve clearly waited long enough and I’d like to try some online dating (I’d rather meet someone in person but I moved to a new city and going out alone isn’t really my thing). How do I let someone know that I basically ha...

/u/shuwux on How did you come out to your parents?

I haven't officially come out yet. At least not to anyone I know irl. I have hinted at the fact that I'm ace, but it just flies over the head of most. April 15, 2020 at 12:16AM