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/u/hupsistakeikkaa on All my brain power is going to thinking about food 😂

I showed this to my friend and she just told me "Lol you are a weeb so..." and I have never felt so called out in my life February 05, 2020 at 12:03AM

/u/Talymaly on Are you asexual? – FAQ

I first thought I was bi then pan and I can love all the genders. But I have only been sexually attracted to two people in my life. With these two I can actually say that I am 100% sure that that is sexual attraction. The first one I was in love with for a long time and then there was a moment where I saw like his belly and I felt this pull. And the second is just a guy from my self defence class. When I am drunk I kiss people and sometimes feel sexual attraction but not when I am sober so I do not count that. With my exboyfriend I thought he should just get it over with and sleep with me so thats done. I did not want that really. I was not at all attracted to him. And sometimes I am really sex repulsive like I shudder at the thought of what I have done sexually with an ex and dont know if I want sex in relationships but at the same time I do. I want sex with people I think. Like I wouldnt mind with that guy from my sex defense class. That would actually be totally super duper okay wi...

Girl I have a crush on, who is always nice to me and easy to talk to in person, is very hard to get a hold of by phone

So I’ve had a crush on this girl for over a year now, we’ve exchanged numbers, and is always friendly and nice to talk to in person, but is very hard to get a hold of by phone, to which I’ve had a mutual friend explain that she can be very distant and hard to hear back from. I already messaged her asking if she would be free this Sunday, but I’m not sure what else I can do besides call her which I’m not at all comfortable with. All I know is last time we hung out, with two of her friend and two of my friends, drinking beers around a fire, we had great conversation, sharing music, and she was touching my arm, my face, and my hair, and we parted with a hug, I really just want to experience that again in a one on one setting, over some beer, and karaoke too. Submitted February 04, 2020 at 11:44PM So I’ve had a crush on this girl for over a year now, we’ve exchanged numbers, and is always friendly and nice to talk to in person, but is very hard to get a hold of by phone, to which I...

Need Advice for pursing a girl who has never had a fling/relationship/experience dating

Hello all, hope all is well. I (24M) have been getting acquainted with a girl (19F) in my accounting program at university and circling around ideas of how to pursue a romantic relationship. Some insight on the girl: she is shy but has a great sense of humor and is really comfortable around me and other colleagues have mentioned to me of the countless times she has been staring at me during lectures and the staring is reciprocal from myself as well as I find her really attractive. She has never had any sort of relationship and comes from a traditional family ( as do I) and that is a quality that I seek for a life-long partner. She is reserved but very comfortable when I am in her presence and I took the initiative and asked her for her number directly in front of her friends/social group. We have been talking here and there and have planned for a date for this coming Saturday. I have no issues in terms of confidence, financial obligations, and dating (supposedly I have good game) bu...

My 1st heartbreak

When I first started looking for a lady to share my life with, I came across this person who was automatically attracted to me. At least, that's what I thought. Well, she started in on the whole "I need money" shtick and I thought that she was playing games with me. I told her I was broke and she attacked my character and my heart, shattering it into a million pieces. She dropped me like a bad habit and left me a lonely, broken soul. That was 2 years ago. The pain is still there, although it has been diminished by time. I appreciate you listening to me and I sincerely hope that you never go through the same situation that I did. Submitted February 05, 2020 at 12:11AM When I first started looking for a lady to share my life with, I came across this person who was automatically attracted to me. At least, that's what I thought. Well, she started in on the whole "I need money" shtick and I thought that she was playing games with me. I told her I was broke...

Creepy or sweet?

I'm getting the red flag vibe from this guy but my coworker (that I'm super close with) thinks it's sweet. We've met twice over the last 2 weeks. He messages me good morning the SECOND I wake up. Like I open my FB (I added him to FB , which I'm starting to think may have been a mistake) and I get a message from him immediately. I wish I was exaggerating. I would think it's a coincidence if it happened a couple times, but it's daily. I get super busy during the day at work.. and barely have time to answer or even look at my phone. He'll message me Multiple times a day saying he hopes I'm having a good day and that he looks forward to talking to me when I'm off. It's not mad 'why aren't you answering me' messages... But like I'll get up to 5 a day. The other day I wasn't feeling good. He kept trying to push for me to let him come over to make some tea. I had to tell him no 3 times, then he asked if some cuddles would he...

Should I(M18) ask this girl(F18) if she wants to go to the movies with me?

I only talked to her twice, and she's nice but a little shy, I think she likes movies though, should I ask her to the movies? Would it be a good idea? Submitted February 05, 2020 at 12:15AM I only talked to her twice, and she's nice but a little shy, I think she likes movies though, should I ask her to the movies? Would it be a good idea?