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I (46F) think I ruined my marriage because of a stupid mistake.

I met Daniel (47) 25 years ago and from the moment I've seen him I was in love with him . He is a kind , smart and funny man. We married 20 years ago , worked hard to buy our own house and had 3 kids (19m, 16f and 10f) . Daniel has always had a job where he had to travel around half of the year . We missed a lot of anniversaries, Christmas and birthday parties . It was hard at the beginnig but I got used to it and I like to have my own space sometimes . Two months ago I started a really big project at the company I work for with a coworker named Alex. This required me to work with him 8 hours a day and I will also go to his house on the weekends . He is married with two kids and this meeting at his house happened ONLY when his wife was home to not raise any suspicions. This means I saw him everyday for the last 2 months . Nothing ever happened between us and we kept our relationship professional . My husband has been gone for 4 months and came home last night . After a nice dinn...

36, Never been in a serious relationship

I'm 36 and I've never been in a serious relationship before. I was at my work Christmas party last night and I started to get super down because everyone was there with somebody. I was at a friend's wedding this year and I had similar feelings. Add in alcohol and I think it makes it worse (I'm not a huge drinker but it does loosen me up in social settings). I've had a few random hook-ups here and there but nothing has ever stuck. How do you meet people? Apps/OLD? What kind of pictures do you take for your profile? Submitted December 16, 2019 at 12:25AM I'm 36 and I've never been in a serious relationship before. I was at my work Christmas party last night and I started to get super down because everyone was there with somebody. I was at a friend's wedding this year and I had similar feelings. Add in alcohol and I think it makes it worse (I'm not a huge drinker but it does loosen me up in social settings). I've had a few random hook-ups he...

I dont know what to do?

Im 18 and went to a 10 day trip with my parents, we always go to the same place. I met a girl there when i was a kid, then i had no feelings for her but in the last 5 years i got my heart broken and lost trust to every girl, not that i wanted to its just instinct. So we met again, i instatnly liked her(17), she is pretty funny, can take a joke, i even farted accidently and she smiled. Last 2 days of the trip we became a couple. Month and a half past since i left, i hoped she could heal my heart, but the thing is i got jealous when she went to get high with her male friend and spent 3 hours with him, but with time i slightly got over it. 3 days ago i noticed she is ignoring my messages and i sent 3 messages like what did i do wrong and why are you ignoring me? Even called her 2 times, nothing. She called 15 min later and she got angry, honeslty i didnt want to do anything wrong i just got the same feeling i got when my heart was broken first time. Now she doesnt want to talk to me and ...

First relationship in 6 years, and its over. I don't know how to cope.

I feel like I need a place to just let this out. I (25M) met this girl (28F) back in early August on OKCupid. This has been the only girl I have gone on a date with since high school and the first one to actually show interest. The date went great and we went back to her place and had sex. I had never done anything like that before, and the whole experience was exciting and had me so nervous. The morning after I went home, I was still in a shock because of how new it was. And I didnt think it would go anywhere. So, like a moron, I told her I wasn't interested in anything romantically, but a few days later I told her I shouldn't have said that, because I actually had strong feelings for her. That was my first mistake. After that we would meet up on the weekends and go to clubs and dance and drink. It was going great. Then after about a month, she saw my facebook messages, and was convinced I was talking to other women based on how they were ordered in my messages list. When sh...

Oblivious guy needs advice after co-worker was flirty at the work party.

There is a girl at work who I've only talked to a few times and is honestly waaaaay out of my league. She expressed she was happy to see me at the party as I previously told her I wouldn't be able to make it. At the after party - she came up to me while I was on the dance floor and was very touchy while talking. Pretty much holding me with both arms while we had a conversation. Me - being nearly blackout drunk at the time and always completely oblivious with women - didn't think much of it and I don't even remember what we talked about as I was very intoxicated (I do remember she wanted me to come to the yoga classes she organizes at work). I also remember leaving later in the night and she was like "You're leaving" and I kind of just dipped with a quick wave. All this said - the girl is pretty physical by nature and I don't want to read into it too much if she was just drunk and being friendly. Someone told me last year she got pretty intoxicated and...

Does it mean anything when a girl compliments you a lot

The other day, she said I was an amazing guy and that she loves talking to me. She also compliments me saying that I'm a sweet guy and that I'm one of the best friends she has. What do you think? Should I make a move or are we just friends? Submitted December 16, 2019 at 12:02AM The other day, she said I was an amazing guy and that she loves talking to me. She also compliments me saying that I'm a sweet guy and that I'm one of the best friends she has. What do you think? Should I make a move or are we just friends?

Getting jaw surgery to get into the same “looks league” as the girls I’m attracted to

Every human being needs to be physically attracted to a someone’s else in order to have sexual relations with them. Therefore, I’m taking responsibility and getting jaw surgery to place myself in the same league looks wise as the girls I’m attracted to. Submitted December 16, 2019 at 12:03AM Every human being needs to be physically attracted to a someone’s else in order to have sexual relations with them. Therefore, I’m taking responsibility and getting jaw surgery to place myself in the same league looks wise as the girls I’m attracted to.