Not sure if the title works here but here's my situation. tl;dr - Met a new co-worker at work and I'm absolutely floored by how amazing she is, how do I initiate a conversation over text that won't make me look desperate or creepy? I (19M) Just met a new co-worker (18F) at work, we're both lifeguards at our local YMCA. This was the first time I have ever seen her and met her. I introduced myself and right off the bat I was taken aback. She has the most beautiful eyes and hair I've ever seen (like actually.) While we were talking it was impossible for me to look away, I felt like a tractor beam was keeping my eyes locked onto hers, I haven't felt like this for a girl again in a very long time. I got her phone number from our list of employee phone numbers when I left work and messaged her "Hey this is (me), let me know if you ever need shifts taken." My dilemma is, I want to text her and get to know her, but how? I don't know if she has a BF, I ...

A girl that I think is cute and am interested in is moving back to the states in January. Should I ask her out? She has been showing interest and even agreed to coffee when she gets back, but I just have no confidence that she would say yes to a date cause I have no self-confidence Submitted November 27, 2019 at 11:24PM A girl that I think is cute and am interested in is moving back to the states in January. Should I ask her out?She has been showing interest and even agreed to coffee when she gets back, but I just have no confidence that she would say yes to a date cause I have no self-confidence

He said he had a very great time with me during the past dates, enjoys my company, is very attracted etc but despite having some emotional involvement he is not in love. Is is worth it to continue or is it a waste of time? I know people are different but I need some insight Submitted November 27, 2019 at 11:31PM He said he had a very great time with me during the past dates, enjoys my company, is very attracted etc but despite having some emotional involvement he is not in love.Is is worth it to continue or is it a waste of time? I know people are different but I need some insight

Hi! I was wondering if anyone knows of sites / places to meet women into fem guys? For me I'm moving towards embracing that part more, and i feel like i have to be 'masculine' but its v tiring. Submitted November 27, 2019 at 11:32PM Hi! I was wondering if anyone knows of sites / places to meet women into fem guys? For me I'm moving towards embracing that part more, and i feel like i have to be 'masculine' but its v tiring.

I am 22 years old in grad. school and broke up with a guy I was seeing (was 37 divorced, and with a kid)... I walked away about 6 months ago due to his lack of commitment... The pain was REAL, like took me MONTHS to really understand that I deserve better than that. So I upgraded my wardrobe, skincare, career, everything. I always do so after a relationship ends. I literally become an upgraded person of my "past self'... Is this normal? Submitted November 27, 2019 at 11:33PM I am 22 years old in grad. school and broke up with a guy I was seeing (was 37 divorced, and with a kid)... I walked away about 6 months ago due to his lack of commitment... The pain was REAL, like took me MONTHS to really understand that I deserve better than that. So I upgraded my wardrobe, skincare, career, everything. I always do so after a relationship ends. I literally become an upgraded person of my "past self'... Is this normal?

I don't have much problem finding people that are interested in dating me. I've gone on a few dozen first dates over the past year. In this area, I'm pretty good. I struggle so much to find someone I want to spend significant amounts of time with and even more to find someone I can trust and love. I don't need a partner, I'm a fully realized person. In fact, I don't even want a partner. If I did, I could have someone. I want specific people, 3 so far over the past few years, that make me feel like I'm better when I'm with them than without. I've asked those 3 people and was in a relationship with one for a year before we realized it wouldn't work. The other two wanted to keep it casual, including one this month that I cut off because it hurt. I'm only 24 but it's getting so fucking tiring. I feel like I don't want to go on anymore first dates, I don't want to try at all. I don't have space for a partner, these people make ho...

I met this girl at work about a week ago (I work In a corporate environment). The moment we met we really hit it off since we had a lot in common. I got her number and after a few days I asked her out and we went on a dinner date. It was great! We talked for like 6 hours straight about everything and we both really opened up to one another. I really saw something special in her. We’ve been texting back and forth with her mostly doing the initiating. Now, today I decided I would ask her out again this weekend and I had some plans in play (decided on some stuff we would both like). We were talking at lunch and when I brought up “btw what are you doing Friday - I wanted to take you to so and so...”. She said she couldn’t do it because she had some family stuff which she explained clearly and it made sense because she had mentioned it before. I made a little small talk about the family thing. She didn’t mention an alternative date so then I asked “what about the next day?”. Which she rep...