As the title says I 15M fell in love with my friend 18F. We've been best friends for ourselfs for 6 months now but last weekend there was a party for her 18th birthday. We've danced, hugged and talked. From that moment i think she is no more my crush but i fell in love with her. I wonder if i should tell her that. She said a lot of things like "i wish i was 3 years younger", we would make a good couple, she even offered me to marry her after we will be like 30 lol. But as I mentioned she is currently 3 years older than me and Im scared it will ruin the relationship. Submitted November 26, 2019 at 11:14PM As the title says I 15M fell in love with my friend 18F. We've been best friends for ourselfs for 6 months now but last weekend there was a party for her 18th birthday. We've danced, hugged and talked. From that moment i think she is no more my crush but i fell in love with her. I wonder if i should tell her that. She said a lot of things like "i w...

I (42f) dated a good friend (40m) almost a year ago. Spent a lot of time with him...and his kids Started getting serious and I freaked out. Got a job 5 hours away and broke up with him via text🤦‍♀️ Out of the blue a few months ago..he looked me up and came to visit. We have been commuting back and forth for the last 3 months on weekends (I now live 5 hours away). I stay over on weekends with or without children. I feel terrible for what I previously did..and frankly would never speak to someone like me again yet...hes never brought it up and is beyond perfect. Why would a man want to go back together with someone like me? I'm not sure what to think but I do very much love him and his children. They talk about "before" often and it breaks my heart that I potentially hurt them Advise? Submitted November 26, 2019 at 11:16PM I (42f) dated a good friend (40m) almost a year ago. Spent a lot of time with him...and his kids Started getting serious and I freaked out. Got a...

I 27/F have been dating a 31/m for about 3 weeks. We’ve gone on 4 dates and had sex on the 2nd one. Things I feel like have been going well, he even came out to with my friends on Saturday (even though he came incredibly late...which was kind of annoying) anyways, I invited him to my housewarming next weekend that I am hosting. He said that he could maybe come, and I told him that maybe I’ll find another date to my Housewarming. He then said back that I could do whatever I wanted and that he actually might have plans that day. I then told him I was kidding and that I didn’t want another date, that I would love for him to be my date but I understand if he has other plans. He didn’t answer me until the next day and then said he would let me know “soon” if he can come and then proceeded to change the subject This of course hurt my feelings. We are hanging out tomorrow, and I’m not sure if I want to have sex with him because I thought it was hurtful that he isn’t committing to an event t...

So a couple months ago, I went on a date with a guy from Bumble that was a little awkward, but we ended up making out in my car by the end of the date. He texted saying he had fun, but then turned me down when I asked if he'd be interested in meeting again, saying he didn't know what he was looking for and that he felt the connection lacked a little bit. So I tried with a few other guys but eventually took a little break from dating. Well, last week I redownloaded the app and we unexpectedly matched again. He explained that he didn't know what he was looking for, and wasn't really ready for a relationship, so he rejected me because he assumed I was the type to only want a serious relationship and didn't want to waste my time. I told him that that wasn't necessarily true and I'd be willing to give the casual arrangement a try. So a couple days ago we went on another date, and overall I thought it went better than the first date, though a few interesting th...

I (15m) like this girl (17f) I just don't know what to say to her. I've tried going up to her and telling her, but last time I told a girl, I got rejected. We often have like two min conversations, but outside of that I'm too scared to talk to her. Any advice anyone. Submitted November 26, 2019 at 11:30PM I (15m) like this girl (17f) I just don't know what to say to her. I've tried going up to her and telling her, but last time I told a girl, I got rejected. We often have like two min conversations, but outside of that I'm too scared to talk to her. Any advice anyone.

I (34M) have become interested in a woman (32F) in my friends circle. The thing is, she just got out of a several-year-long relationship somewhere around a year ago, and her other friends have made mention of her still having a hard time with it sometimes (he broke up with her, and in a bad way). We have almost exclusively hung out in group settings, but when we're alone it's never awkward and the conversation flows pretty well. I want to ask her out on a date, but I'm not sure if I should give her more time to heal. On the one hand I think being asked out might help her feel better. But I'm stuck in this mind trap of worrying that I'll ruin my chances by asking too soon, but also that if I wait too long she'll be too used to me being a friend to even consider me as being more (is that even a thing?). What do y'all think? Submitted November 26, 2019 at 11:30PM I (34M) have become interested in a woman (32F) in my friends circle. The thing is, she ju...

For many years I felt I'm just ugly/average and will never be interesting enough to ever get a girlfriend. I just don't seem charismatic enough and I don't believe that I'm good looking like other guys. I know it seems negative to compare myself to other people but this has been in my mind every day for so long. Every. Day. I finished school this year and near the end of the year some girls told me apparently that a few girls they know actually find me attractive. I was extremely surprised since I always assume no one (at the time) thought I was attractive since I didn't really catch any common psychological clues. But one time I decided to text a girl who followed me for a year who goes to the same school on IG and I thought she was really extremely pretty. Well, I decided to be brave for once and just say "fuck it". "I'm gonna randomly text her and say that I think she's really pretty". And so since I had her on Snapchat for a few da...