Earlier today I came across a post where a male was asking how to go about coitus without his roommate knowing. He stated he was shy, and to him sex was very personal. His fear of what his roommate thought was stopping him from participating in the best sex years of his life. I gave him some advice. And was rather surprised of all the downvotes. In summary it was to live his life to the fullest and to stop allowing his brain to over think. Sex is natural and beautiful. And not to miss what he is naturally attracted to over fears of being reprimanded by his roommate. Sex is natural. Why are we so ashamed? And why do so many people still view it as taboo? Submitted November 25, 2019 at 12:01AM Earlier today I came across a post where a male was asking how to go about coitus without his roommate knowing. He stated he was shy, and to him sex was very personal. His fear of what his roommate thought was stopping him from participating in the best sex years of his life.I gave him som...

Hi everyone, i hope this post belongs here. A few weeks ago I(19f) bought a g-spot vibrator. After trying it out i can say that for clit stimulation this toy is amazing but i can't seem to enjoy it when using it vaginally. Any advice/experience on how to make it more pleasureable vaginally? Submitted November 25, 2019 at 12:08AM Hi everyone, i hope this post belongs here.A few weeks ago I(19f) bought a g-spot vibrator. After trying it out i can say that for clit stimulation this toy is amazing but i can't seem to enjoy it when using it vaginally.Any advice/experience on how to make it more pleasureable vaginally?

My girlfriend wants to try MDMA later this week while having sex with me. I want to be prepared for it and I wanted to know if there is any stuff that i need to know before I do it...Like is it ok for her to give me a BJ while on Molly?Is it also okay if we have anal sex? Any other suggestions will be greatly appreciated. Submitted November 25, 2019 at 12:10AM My girlfriend wants to try MDMA later this week while having sex with me. I want to be prepared for it and I wanted to know if there is any stuff that i need to know before I do it...Like is it ok for her to give me a BJ while on Molly?Is it also okay if we have anal sex? Any other suggestions will be greatly appreciated.

Weird title, sorry. I'll call the friend V, and his girlfriend M. V and I aren't very close; we used to be much closer, but then drifted apart over drama in our group of friends. This was before V and M met. Recently (meaning over the last year or so) we reconnected because of circumstances, we don't really hang out but we see each other regularly in class and chat often. I feel like I should specify this because I don't want to seem insincere - there was some ambiguity between me and V at the time, I think we both definitely considered dating the other, but it never happened. This was about 4/5 years ago. I had a little crush, but I was also 18, you know how it is. I wouldn't talk to M as much. I thought it was normal, I knew him and he was in my class, she wasn't and we never even were really introduced. Some time later I found out she was saying I was antagonising her and "excluding" her. I was really baffled. It's not like she had ever sho...

Me and my friend went to a pub the other night and both got quite drunk. Everything was fine until I was obviously flirting with her, the problem being she has an on again and off again boyfriend (21M). After awhile I realised my mistake and told her I should of flirted because she's sorta with the guy (who's also my friend). I messaged the guy to apologise and explain what happend and he took it well enough. I just feel like I can't talk to my friend (the 19F one) anymore out of respect for their relationship. I don't feel any feelings towards her normally and I still want to be friends and she seemed open to it but I feel too awkward to talk to her. I'm really not sure what to do, any advice? TL:DR- I flirted with my friend after being drunk and now feel really bad about it. Submitted November 24, 2019 at 11:08PM Me and my friend went to a pub the other night and both got quite drunk. Everything was fine until I was obviously flirting with her, the problem...

This is partly ranting, partly asking for support. My boyfriend and I are celebrating our first Christmas together and I couldn’t be more excited. We’re in a long distance relationship so travel is already expensive over the holidays, and we recently had a conversation about us each being a little tight on money so we’re not going all out on Christmas gifts. We settled on under $100 for each other. I’m so excited about the idea of him giving me anything that I don’t care how flashy or expensive it is. Anything he put thought into thinking about me will make me feel special. I have any idea of one thing he bought me. It’s sentimental and I will appreciate it. But my friends laughed when I told them. It probably only cost $15. They’re like “hopefully that’s not what it is”. They’re almost suggesting he’s a shitty boyfriend that’s undervaluing me. And they keeps suggesting I get him things way out of my price range. It’s really hurting my feelings because these cheap gifts we’re gett...

My friend group is kind of strange and none of us have had a real boyfriend we’ve all hooked up with and had things with lots of guys but each of seemed to relate in the whole actual relationship issue. Lately I have been super suicidal and depressed and essentially just in the worst place of my life ( I have borderline personality disorder and ptsd) and I’m just terrified 24/7 but I’m working on it and am starting therapy. But i feel awful because my friend is essentially having things get so bright for her. Don’t get me wrong I don’t want her to be unhappy at all, my post is about how I can internally deal with myself. Externally I have supported and expressed my enthusiasm for her I would never tell her it makes me feel this way because it’s unfair and just not rational. I guess what I’m asking is how do I not let my interal mental illness and like suicidal drives to not be effected by this news. At first I was a little okay but like now a million horrible things are racing throu...