I'm 18, male, live in London and suffering from depression, mainly a lack of motivation and a really low self esteem. I'm an ex Muslim, I have attended a boys school for the almost 7 years now and outside of school I have no life except watching anime and playing video games. I've decided that there isn't anything I really want in life other than to possibly find someone special. For whatever reason I'm under the assumption that the only person who would be with me is someone equally as broken, hopeless and fucked up as. I am. I normally lack the motivation to go anywhere so is there anything I can do to find some sort of happieness? Submitted November 17, 2019 at 11:34PM I'm 18, male, live in London and suffering from depression, mainly a lack of motivation and a really low self esteem. I'm an ex Muslim, I have attended a boys school for the almost 7 years now and outside of school I have no life except watching anime and playing video games. I'v...

The person I want to ask doesn’t like to be asked “how do you feel about me?” I get it. It can be awkward, but I want to know and not quite sure how to put it into words without putting him on the spot so to speak. Any advice is much appreciated. Submitted November 17, 2019 at 11:51PM The person I want to ask doesn’t like to be asked “how do you feel about me?” I get it. It can be awkward, but I want to know and not quite sure how to put it into words without putting him on the spot so to speak. Any advice is much appreciated.

Let me start by saying, I (26F) have very little experience when it comes to dating, so I am honestly just confused. I recently met someone (27M) on Bumble. We texted for a couple days, and then set up a first date. We hung out for a few hours, It started off a bit awkward but was fine by the end of the date. He even kissed me when we got to my car and f/u with a "i had a good time, lets hang out again" text. The day after he texts me to set up a second date. We set up the 2nd date 1 week after the first date. The day before the 2nd date I text to confirm that we were meeting up and he responds that he will make it. THE DAY OF THE 2nd DATE, he cancels saying that he is too hung over. I am assuming he has lost interest. So my question is, why doesn't he just say he isn't interested instead of making up an excuse? Submitted November 17, 2019 at 11:51PM Let me start by saying, I (26F) have very little experience when it comes to dating, so I am honestly just conf...

Why is this? Submitted November 17, 2019 at 11:52PM Why is this?

I (19m) started working part time as a dishwasher few weeks ago and there is this girl (19?f) who works there with me and who I get to see only for a few brief moments every evening because she is busy taking orders. I would like to know whether it is a good idea to ask someone who I barely know anything about, including her age, out and if yes where should I take her and how should I ask her? Thank you in advance. Note: I have zero experience in dating except only few brief moments in elementary school and those did not end very well for me. Submitted November 17, 2019 at 11:54PM I (19m) started working part time as a dishwasher few weeks ago and there is this girl (19?f) who works there with me and who I get to see only for a few brief moments every evening because she is busy taking orders. I would like to know whether it is a good idea to ask someone who I barely know anything about, including her age, out and if yes where should I take her and how should I ask her? Thank y...

It’s weird because I don’t want to completely forget about them as they were a good friend, but I want to not feel sad when I am reminded of their existence. Especially when it’s so easy to remember them... Submitted November 17, 2019 at 11:55PM It’s weird because I don’t want to completely forget about them as they were a good friend, but I want to not feel sad when I am reminded of their existence.Especially when it’s so easy to remember them...

So I met this girl (19) and we went on a date. Things went brilliantly - we got on very well and it was a night full of laughter and great conversation. After this night she continued to text me more enthusiastically than before and we talked until we next met up. We kissed that night and continued to chat online after too. I realise I was probably texting her a bit too much even when convo would dry up, and when I saw her for the third time I was blackout drunk and apparently was clinging to her the whole night. In worry of losing what we had, I continued to text, foolishly, and she soon told me that ‘she wasn’t looking for anything at the moment’ and ‘let’s just be friends’. It taught me an important lesson from this about being too keen and learning to give a girls space. It’s been 2 weeks since I got that text from her, and I still think about her every now and then. We really had something good going before I started to become a bit needy/ clingy. Is there any point in me wanting...