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Question about kegels

Okay, so there are a lot of posts about kegels on here so I apologize in advance for another one. Basically, i get the general concept. Squeeze pelvic floor muscles and they will strengthen over time. Great! But whenever I try, I then have to pee much more often than normal. I already feel like I have to pee a lot, but it almost doubles when i do kegels on a regular basis. I'm female btw and the motion im doing to practice kegels is the same motion of holding your pee in. Is this normal or am I just doing it wrong? Does anyone have any tips? Submitted November 11, 2019 at 11:14PM Okay, so there are a lot of posts about kegels on here so I apologize in advance for another one. Basically, i get the general concept. Squeeze pelvic floor muscles and they will strengthen over time. Great! But whenever I try, I then have to pee much more often than normal. I already feel like I have to pee a lot, but it almost doubles when i do kegels on a regular basis. I'm female btw and the...

Blow job gone wrong

I always pride myself in giving great blow jobs but this weekend the unfortunate happened......i met up with a guy from tinder and we got belligerent drunk. I went down on him but was so drunk i threw up acid/spit in the middle of it 🤦 he went immediately soft and the awkwardness kicked in. I'll never see him again and don't care to i just can't stop beating myself over it. Has this happened to anyone else and how tf do i get over it?! 😅😔 Submitted November 11, 2019 at 11:14PM I always pride myself in giving great blow jobs but this weekend the unfortunate happened......i met up with a guy from tinder and we got belligerent drunk. I went down on him but was so drunk i threw up acid/spit in the middle of it 🤦 he went immediately soft and the awkwardness kicked in. I'll never see him again and don't care to i just can't stop beating myself over it. Has this happened to anyone else and how tf do i get over it?! 😅😔

Cock sleaves: women's opinions?

I have a longer penis, just shy of 8 inches, but my girth is only 5 inches. My girlfriend now has a vagina that feels a bit on the wider side, when we were having sex the other day I put 2 fingers in with my penis and she went wild. Should I get a cock sleave or does that just scream "I'm insecure about my penis" Submitted November 11, 2019 at 11:16PM I have a longer penis, just shy of 8 inches, but my girth is only 5 inches. My girlfriend now has a vagina that feels a bit on the wider side, when we were having sex the other day I put 2 fingers in with my penis and she went wild. Should I get a cock sleave or does that just scream "I'm insecure about my penis"

Sex feels not worth it?

I (F25) recently feel like sex is not worth it. My husband's (M30) 7 inch dick hurts almost every time the first few seconds. After sex too I often feel some soreness or burning even if we lubricate well and he doesn't hit my cervix. It's not vaginismus or yeast or anything, just a big dick. During sex I can only come up to 3 times and it takes more physical exertion and prep (shaving, washing, brushing, flossing). When I masturbate I can just do it spontaneously and enjoy 10-12 orgasms without putting much work into it and with 0 pain and without spending time on foreplay. I feel like if you add prep, coordinating, foreplay and cleanup, sex takes 3 hours and isn't worth it. Also, my breasts and nipples are too sensitive and I dislike when they are touched too much. I literally want to throw up when my nipples are stimulated because it feels instantly like overstimulation. I hate myself. Why can't I be normal and enjoy sex with my husband. Also, he's vanilla ...

My boyfriend (19) wants me(f19) to be dominate in bed.

I talked to my bf and he said he would find it hot if I was dominate during sex. I’m all for it. But I feel awkward because I don’t know what to say or what to do. Any tips? Submitted November 11, 2019 at 11:21PM I talked to my bf and he said he would find it hot if I was dominate during sex. I’m all for it. But I feel awkward because I don’t know what to say or what to do. Any tips?

Im feeling really nervous about sex and i dont know if its normal

So i recently got a girlfriend and we instantly started talking dirty to each other Personally i have always been a little crazy about sex, and ive been really looking forward for my first time, Me and my girlfriend are sort of planning a time to have sex, we dont have a date yet but we already have protection Even though ive been waiting to have sex really badly, i have a really weird gut feeling, like constant nervousness, we dont want anyone we know to find out cause we want this to be more of a personal thing Im not sure if its just because i’ve never done it before or what, if we get the opportunity, we are gonna have sex, it just feels really weird currently and i dont know if thats normal Submitted November 11, 2019 at 11:33PM So i recently got a girlfriend and we instantly started talking dirty to each otherPersonally i have always been a little crazy about sex, and ive been really looking forward for my first time, Me and my girlfriend are sort of planning a time to ...

How to use coconut oil?

Here’s a story to make you laugh on this dreary Monday. As you all know, it’s the time of year where the coconut oil hardens. I had a chunk of coconut oil that wouldn’t melt between my hands so I put it between my downstairs lips and that shit melted like butter in a frying pan. It didn’t feel bad, it didn’t feel good. Just thought I’d share to make you all giggle....or be inspired. Submitted November 11, 2019 at 11:35PM Here’s a story to make you laugh on this dreary Monday. As you all know, it’s the time of year where the coconut oil hardens. I had a chunk of coconut oil that wouldn’t melt between my hands so I put it between my downstairs lips and that shit melted like butter in a frying pan. It didn’t feel bad, it didn’t feel good. Just thought I’d share to make you all giggle....or be inspired.