This girl [24F] and I [24M] dated a couple of months ago. We did a lot of things wrong, like going too fast, not communicating properly, among others. We really liked each other massively, but she was terrified that we were falling into a relationship pattern that she believes always ends in heartbreak and she didn’t that to happen. We stopped being sexual but we kept dating, but I noticed that as time went on she’d pull back more and more. I’ve noticed that she still likes me so much, but she feels uncomfortable with anything relationship-like, and thus she’s wanted to date less often. I don’t want to go out with her if she’s not into it, so I stopped, but then she’d seek me out again, but instead of going on dates she’d try to make it a friends outing. So what happened is this. Last night we were hanging out with fiends and near the end I asked her out to a jazz event today and she said yes. This morning she said “I’m very tired, would you rather hang out at my place?”. A couple t...

So I met a girl at a party, we had a little chat and afterwards we added eachother on snapchat. Now a few weeks later I noticed she rarely asks questions. Also when I ask her something like what did you do this week she says like nothing special and that’s it. A few days later she asks me a random question I answer her and she doesn’t even reply. Also she says she kissed with someone she is into but when I ask how they have been doing she says it’s nothing special and stuff... I want to ask her out but I feel like she isn’t interested in me... or she plays hard to get, this makes me feel not confident to ask her out and stop texting her. What should I do? Submitted November 06, 2019 at 11:22PM So I met a girl at a party, we had a little chat and afterwards we added eachother on snapchat. Now a few weeks later I noticed she rarely asks questions. Also when I ask her something like what did you do this week she says like nothing special and that’s it. A few days later she asks me ...

Hey all, I spent most of my high school years chasing after this girl and now we’re finally together. We were very close friends for about 4 years, two months ago she told me she’s had a crush on me for a the majority of our friendship and I told her I felt the same way. We’re both somewhat awkward individuals and we both are pretty bad texters. This is a problem as I’m in college an hour and a half away from her and she’s still in high school. I see her almost every weekend but during the week we do not communicate very much. I try my best to text her and stuff but I usually am the initiator and when I do initiate she sometimes takes a while to reply. I know she does this with other people who text her as well but still I want to talk to her more yet I don’t want to overtext her. I don’t think this is a sign of disinterest on her part as our relationship is still progressing and we still spend the weekends together. We’ve both never been confrontational people so I’m not sure how t...

Not sure if this is the right place for this but here goes. I'm (23M) quite new to this whole dating thing and I recently matched with someone (25F) on tinder who is from a different country. She was travelling in my city for the weekend, we met up for food and I showed her around some nice bars. I honestly feel like it went extremely well. We didn't get a chance to meet up again before she flew home but we have kept in contact. I really want to see her again as I felt like we made a good connection, we've been talking about meeting up if I ever travel to her country or if she comes back here so we can show each other around, but I'm unsure if she sees this as just friends or more than that, it's hard to tell over messages. I feel like I have strong feelings for her which has came as a shock to me as we only met for one night. I don't know if I should tell her how I feel now to see if she feels a strong connection aswell so we can decide where to take it from...

I know this girl a bit for two months now, we do the same study and we're in our first year. We've had some moments together like having lunch, going for a bike ride, all casual and just friendly. Earlier this evening she asked me to study together in my room. I know this can just be a friendly gesture to seriously study or is this probably more than that? Submitted November 06, 2019 at 11:38PM I know this girl a bit for two months now, we do the same study and we're in our first year. We've had some moments together like having lunch, going for a bike ride, all casual and just friendly.Earlier this evening she asked me to study together in my room. I know this can just be a friendly gesture to seriously study or is this probably more than that?

I haven't dated someone in person in 5 years and even my first relationship was awkward and ended poorly (that wa sin highschool and I'm in uni now). So basically, my social experience is somewhat poor when it comes to trying to get to know a girl and potentially ask her out on a date. So basically I met this girl 3 weeks ago or so, we joked a bit during a social. When we were about to leave she came up and introduced her self and we got to know each other more while walking out. A couple of days later asked if she ever been to this restaurant and she said no. Then asked me if I wanted to go there which was followed up by them saying they would be all for that place. So a little later I asked her to go there with me, ended up asking if she wanted to see a movie too before grabbing dinner there which she had no objection too. So we hung out together just ourselves a week after meeting each other. I don't know if I could call this a date or just two friends hanging out toge...

I (23f) am conflicted about what to do with my boyfriend (35m). he wants me to make friends with his friends but his friends are really into being annoying ass edgelords. he has me in a group chat with two of them and one of them is always saying racially insensitive shit (I'm black) or just being a weirdo in general. today he was posting a lot of lolicon (something to do with anime and young girls) and it was disgusting to me. I tell my boyfriend about this and he downplays it. he always downplays it and just chalks it up to me being "triggered" even though I have a valid reason to feel the way I do about what's said. Submitted November 06, 2019 at 11:51PM I (23f) am conflicted about what to do with my boyfriend (35m). he wants me to make friends with his friends but his friends are really into being annoying ass edgelords. he has me in a group chat with two of them and one of them is always saying racially insensitive shit (I'm black) or just being a weir...