like this dudes a total dreamboat to me, at least from his tinder pics and our chats over snapchat. he’s super funny AND really attractive AND hella smart. total 10/10 for me dude. And I’m just like.. woah, what the fuck, hello? how did I score a date with this dude!! I look at myself and think I’m a total pud half the time!! Anyway it’s... tomorrow and I’m just praying to jeezus that it will go well. It’s not really a traditional ‘date’ date, like, we’re not going anywhere. he’s just coming over to my place to get blitzed, smash and play smash bros probably, whatever we feel like doing. seems chill and good to me. Anyway, what’s mostly got me nervous is I am rusty as FUCK when it comes to dating. Like, it’s been a few months since I’ve been on an actual date!! Or boned anyone!!! My coochie has cobwebs!!!! I dunno what I’m gonna dooo!! I know to just act natural but like holy smokes the anticipation is KILLING ME. We do seem to have good chemistry so I’m just hoping that carries m...

Have a fwb and I was thinking he was just trying to be polite and ask about ny life and well be "friends" but he makes sure to atleast say "good morning/goodnight" once a day, asks how my day is, requests cuddles and kisses AFTER sex, and even spent an extra hour going on a walk with me last time because I had to wait for transportation instead of just having me wait alone like i kept offering. *side note he has mentioned jokingly coming to my family holidays way more then once and meeting my family and when I jokingly asked him about planning month in advance he said "id of course be bringing you to my family stuff bc then my family won't stop asking me about getting a girlfriend" I get a fwb is just sex, so im so confused why he's taken so much of an interest in my life and in sharing his life and such with me. Submitted September 14, 2019 at 12:27AM Have a fwb and I was thinking he was just trying to be polite and ask about ny life and w...

Seriously never happens to me, out of the 10-20 girls i’ve talked to in the past week almost all have been down to hangout or meet up sometime , off dating apps. I honestly want to delete my dating apps for a few months and self improve. Probably better it happened today than two weeks or after I was invested. Still only happens to me once a year and always girls I’m actually into. Tbh I’d rather be lied to than left on read. It’s always girls that seem super interested at first and about 8/10 attractiveness so they probably have guys lined up. Probably going after the wrong ones, but honestly I’ve been ghosted before and then randomly hit them up and they wanna hook up. Submitted September 14, 2019 at 12:32AM Seriously never happens to me, out of the 10-20 girls i’ve talked to in the past week almost all have been down to hangout or meet up sometime , off dating apps. I honestly want to delete my dating apps for a few months and self improve. Probably better it happened today t...

I’ve been going to my obgyn because I was tested positive for BV. I have taken oral flaygl, tinidazole, and vaginal flagyl. Things only got marginally better with foul odor going away but still some off white/yellow discharge. However, after I finished the flagyl gel, I got the usual clumpy discharge side effect (it has gone away) but also vaginal itching and itching towards my butt too. I suspected it might be a yeast infection. I went back to my doctor and she said that she wants to test me for chlamydia and gonorrhea in addition to a yeast infection and bv. During those tests I felt really tense and the speculum really hurt (felt like it burned/stung). she just did blind tests instead. I have a boyfriend and I know that he got tested before he started dating me and doesn’t have anything, so I don’t think he gave anything to me. However, two years ago ( way before I started dating my boyfriend) I had this one time encounter with a friend where he did oral to me and gave me a handjo...

The title says it all -- how can someone change a prude mindset? ​ I've always been slightly ashamed of the idea of being a sexual person. I blame it on my upbringing: religious household, paranoid mother who fears of what others think about us....and not to mention, society's views on girls and guys in general (we all know what I mean). In high school, girls were slut-shamed endlessly. Due to my mother's paranoia of other people's opinions, I feel like it rubbed off on me and I became afraid of seeing sex as something enjoyable. I lost my virginity with the same man who I have 2 children with, and he sure didn't help with this (our relationship had a lot of problems that I believe made my libido 10x worse). ​ But now that I'm single and free, I want to get out there. I want to break out of this "shell". Porn and masturbating isn't a problem, but it's not helping. I think it's due to the fact that it's private and no one can ever k...

I came home and for 2 condoms in trash one ripped one finished in.. we been married 10 yrs not once have I ever found a used condom.. Submitted September 13, 2019 at 11:30PM I came home and for 2 condoms in trash one ripped one finished in.. we been married 10 yrs not once have I ever found a used condom..

So what was going through your mind when you were eating your first pussy for the first time in you life and what was the taste like? Submitted September 13, 2019 at 11:40PM So what was going through your mind when you were eating your first pussy for the first time in you life and what was the taste like?