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Good first date, but he’s traveling for several weeks due to his consulting job. How do I keep the momentum going over text? [26 F, 29 M]

I had a good first date with a great guy 2 weekends ago. We met up for lunch and ended up talking for a few hours, up until the restaurant closed for the afternoon. However, he’s a consultant and is on a project right now that has him away until early October. So far, we’ve texted each other every day. We each send long texts about our days, and about random things too. We match each other in terms of text length and cadence of responding, and ask questions to keep the convo going. However, I’m a bit nervous about being able to successfully keep this up for a month - what if the convo goes stale? It’s essentially trying to have a LDR type of deal (except we’re not official) but we’ve only met once in person! Presumably and hopefully, he’ll want to see me again. I take it that the fact that he’s also sending long texts and we’re responding to pretty much every line we each write means there’s mutual interest. What advice do you have to keep the momentum until he’s back? What are s...

About to give birth and husband left

I’m not sure what I’m needing/expecting out of this. I feel absolutely lost and broken and I don’t want to talk to my friends or family about it. I am due to have a baby in 3 days. Obviously I’m already anxious and my hormones are everywhere as it is. Things at home have finally spiraled out of control and I don’t know what I should think about it all. I made it very clear to my husband that I wasn’t comfortable with him doing activities away from the house in the couple of weeks leading up to my due date. He’s an avid golfer. Well last weekend I gave the OK for him to go sky diving for a buddy’s bachelor party....I wasn’t comfortable with it, but didn’t want to be a “mean wife” so I told him it was fine to go. Made it very clear that I really didn’t want him doing anything else after that on the chance that I could go into labor at any time and I needed to feel like he would be there and available if that happened. He left two days ago and hasn’t been home since. Back story: he ha...

Boyfriend lied straight to my face about messaging girls on social media and while him and I were broken up for only a couple days after I broke up with him

So me and my bf of 2 years broke up for about a few days over a big blow up; I told him I was done and I blocked him off everything. Then a when talking about things and trying to reconcile he said on everything that he loves that he didn’t msgs any girls at all etc and that he’d show me his msgs to prove it and whatever. A disclaimer as well, in the past he has lied plenty of times about things like this and he knows how I feel about him lying straight to my face NOW and we got back together in May and has been very rocky ever since cause I have very big trust issues with him and he promised he wouldn’t lie anymore or msg girls or any of that . He has been trying really hard to show and prove his loyalty to me- had his passwords to his social media, has deleted girls off his social media, if I was suspicious of something he would prove it 100% and all of that. And this time around after talking and hanging out the whole day, in the morning I was looking through his phone (he let me l...

Intimacy Issues with GF(22F)

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/u/BlackRose948 on Most ace thing that ever happened to me

Wow you’ve were around before bts and exo started to dominate everything (no shade, I love them but wow their fandom sometimes is a mess). I got into kpop around 2014/2015ish so not as an “old” stan . You and my girlfriend would get along well! She loves Day6 and Got7 a lot! I’m more of a girl group stan tbh haha, but nct and shinee are exceptions :D September 02, 2019 at 12:20AM

/u/-TrashyArtist- on Pride dragon I drew today! So glad when my family saw it, they just thought it was a cards thing.

Ok, I’ll go look at it September 02, 2019 at 12:20AM

/u/kappa_demonn on Relatable

Ayy bi-romantics unite! September 02, 2019 at 12:17AM