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Are there people really busy 24/7?

I(23M) and her (24F) were on a date that went really well in a great atmosphere. On the date she herself suggested whether I would like to go with her and her friend to camping at the end of the august. After the date, she wrote to me that she had a great time, but then the contact between us got cold, I had to wait 8-12 hours to wait for an answer. When I asked if she was just busy or simply not interested in further contact, she replied that she really wants to write with me, but she is just busy (she makes jewelry) and preparations for the upcoming exhibitions take all of her time and she herself noticed and said that these preparations destroys her contacts with her friends. Then she wrote that she would try to change the problem of writing back. It was good for 4 days and then again we returned to one message for 8-12 hours. A few days after the meeting, she said that she would not be able to go camping because of these preparations, but she would try to come up with something ...

Anyone I can direct message? Looking for advice on first line to this girl on tinder.

Hey I thought I’d improve my chances of going out with this girl on tinder by crafting a well thought-out first line. Here is what she wrote in her bio: Meeting new people and having fun. Share your podcast recommendations! I swiped right for the dog first, you second. 🙃 Eclectic, eccentric, and effervescent. I keep myself pretty entertained. 1st photo: she just looks super pretty 2nd photo: Eating McDonald and drinking wine And the rest of the photos are her looking pretty, hugging a friend and standing with a parking cone on her head. Anyway, any advice would be appreciated. Is there anyone I could direct message and just talk me through this? And I can update this too, to share what I send and how it goes. And I’m guessing she swiped on me because I have a dog in my profile. I guess my opening line would be, “wanna do shots of tequila and dine at Taco Bell for the first date?” Submitted August 18, 2019 at 11:51PM Hey I thought I’d improve my chances of going out with...

Being single sucks I hate single life?

Can’t change it though sadly😢 Submitted August 18, 2019 at 11:54PM Can’t change it though sadly😢

Im getting serious feelings for lesbian bestfriend.

So this is strange to explain but im a 26(M) in love with my lesbian best friend 23(F). We've known each other for over 10 years and have been in on/off relationships throughout, as of now were in an open relationship. We recently got matching tatts and made a vow to get married by the time were 40. Its strange because she straight up likes girls but continues to have these weekend adventures with me were we fool around. Now im normally a team player when we go to bars and stuff and let her mess around with all the chicks and never had a problem. But now she has this girlfriend that prevents us from chilling by invading my time with her(twice a month). I guess i just dont know how to feel about all this, I've told myself to find someone else but i always come back to her... Submitted August 18, 2019 at 11:59PM So this is strange to explain but im a 26(M) in love with my lesbian best friend 23(F). We've known each other for over 10 years and have been in on/off relati...

Question....

After both working for 8 months full time, she told me to end work the same day as her, a week earlier than I would have, before the new semester starts so I “have a week to chill.” What does she mean by this? I saw her a couple days after that when she was with her friend and she didn’t seem too enthusiastic to see me.... Thoughts ? Submitted August 19, 2019 at 12:07AM After both working for 8 months full time, she told me to end work the same day as her, a week earlier than I would have, before the new semester starts so I “have a week to chill.”What does she mean by this?I saw her a couple days after that when she was with her friend and she didn’t seem too enthusiastic to see me....Thoughts ?

I think of going on random dates from dating apps, so do people have sex with their dates?

I was told nothing is wrong with going on dates with few different guys so I can learn what type of guy I'd like, how to tell how I feel, and etc. I'm a female in late 20's. I have lack of dating experience, so I've been thinking of using dating apps for "practice." I'd learn from my mistakes. I have a question. Do you have sex with every person you were seeing? What if I don't want to have sex with every guy I've gone on a date with? I'm concerned about STIs, and I don't want to make my number higher. I'd be likely to sleep with one of them though if we both are ready. Oh, I wouldn't have sex on first date anyway. Submitted August 19, 2019 at 12:13AM I was told nothing is wrong with going on dates with few different guys so I can learn what type of guy I'd like, how to tell how I feel, and etc.I'm a female in late 20's. I have lack of dating experience, so I've been thinking of using dating apps for "p...

I've had a few dates with this guy I'm really in to but I don't know if it is a good thing for him at the moment?

Hi dating advise people, I'm 24, single for 4 months now and just had some dates with a guy that really have me butterflies and is very kind. Atleast he was until he went quite rude and standoff ish to me. He didn't ask me things and kept on talking about himself. When we had our second date last night I actually just told him I couldn't really appreciate his disinterest towards me and the little bit of "a hole" behaviour. He was very sweet and calm and explained why he was the way he was by past trauma and not being happy with how he is right now and trying to work on that. I don't know if it really is a smart idea to sell further romantical intentions with him even though we click very well physically and we can talk very good. He took my advise and already shows more enthusiasm and interest, but I want it to be genuine. How do I go with this? I don't even know if I want a relationship at the moment. Submitted August 19, 2019 at 12:18AM Hi da...