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What does your SO do that makes you stare at them and think "Damn, I love you"

My husband is currently rocking our 9 month old son and swaying with him to The Beatles and I'm laying here thinking Damn, I love this man! Submitted August 03, 2019 at 11:39PM My husband is currently rocking our 9 month old son and swaying with him to The Beatles and I'm laying here thinking Damn, I love this man!

We were worried Hurricane Erick would ruin our beach wedding... instead it gave us this

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SHE'S FOREVER CHANGED THE REST OF MY LIFE

The other woman is Kimberly Knapp (58). Here's my story. He comes home a little later than usual. What's different about him? It's almost imperceptible, but it's definitely there. I doubt anyone else would see it, but I see it. We've been married 33 years. You know when the energy around your spouse changes when you've been together that long. He's a strange kind of happy, almost giddy. He looks 10 years younger. Are his feet touching the ground? It's as though he's walking on air. What's happened? I ask him because I'm sensing something significant happened since he left this morning to attend 2nd day of the 2018 Cannabis Convention in Los Angeles. "None of your business", he responds. I'm uneasy, but there's nothing to do but wait and see. He denies anything is different. As the days and weeks go by I am more convinced my fears are not ill-founded because he becomes increasingly dismissive, impatient and secretive. It...

Wife (29) Pushed Me (30) During Argument

Today my wife and I got into a huge argument. We decided to try and remodel our bathroom. We are having guests come in 3 weeks, and thought (maybe stupidly) we could get it done by then. Through the weekdays I have removed vanity, toilet, and old tile. Today I started putting in new tile. Now this is my first time ever doing this. My wife starts getting agitated with how long it is taking me. That I am overthinking it. Now I am getting agitated due to the unneeded pressure, and it is escalating the issue. Not long after, I made a mistake and ruined a tile. This was her breaking point. She starts screaming, so I decide to start and leave the house to get some air. She then basically charges me and pushes me a couple times. She finally walks away and locks her self in the room. The physical aspect of this argument has never happened before in our 3 years married (8 years together). Though the screaming indeed has happened. We also have no sex life anymore. She says she is disgusted wi...

I (21F) feel like I’m being emotionally abusive towards my boyfriend (24M)

My boyfriend and I have been together a little over 3 months, have known each other for 6 months. We got into a huge fight yesterday over him canceling plans at the last minute, which has happened a few times in the past, but that’s beside the point. I said some things that weren’t the kindest and I ultimately made him feel really bad for cancelling. He called me out on my bullshit which i believe made me more angry in the moment. I drove to his house to try to mutually resolve the situation and so we could both hear where the other was coming from. He told me he felt like he was walking on eggshells with me, never knowing when my mood would change. I also have a tendency of giving him the silent treatment. We resolved the problem but i still feel incredibly awful about my actions. My boyfriend is one of the kindest people in the world and I never ever want to hurt him. I was in a physically and emotionally abusive relationship when I was 15 so I know how it feels and I don’t want him...

My bf (m24) thinks I (f20) don’t care about him. How do I change that?

I’ve never posted before but here I go, my boyfriend and I have been together for 1 year. He’s super supportive, kind, and thoughtful. I care about him very deeply and I express it often. But I’ve made some mistakes. When we first started dating he bought me his favorite book to read and it took me a year to finish it. He once bought me a bus ticket to see him at school and I had a crazy morning and missed the bus (it was my fault but it wasn’t just because I didn’t want to make it, things happened). Most recently, he asked me to come to the gym with him (he loves working out) and I accidentally fell asleep when it was time to see him (something I’ve never done before). He thinks I don’t care about him or his interests. And it’s true, it doesn’t look like it. But I actually do care about him and the things he cares about. But I’m interested in art and writing and I never expect him to like the things I like cause it doesn’t bother me that we have different interests. Like i’d love ...

I feel that my (F27) bf (M35) has put his work emotions onto me

Hi, first off, thanks for reading the post! It might get lengthy cos’ I want to provide as much context and details as I can. I’ve been with my SO for 7 years. He recently found a new job and we thought all was well. We thought we could finally buy a flat together and we could travel out together. We’ve not travelled out before due to his financial situation. Fast forward to just 2 months into the job, he said that he was unhappy and couldn’t work well with this co-worker. Okay fine, every work place has a shitty co-worker. But the fact that he is getting so uptight with her, bothers me because I’m very worried that he will leave this job again. Which few days ago, he confirmed my fears. He said he’d leave when his probation ends, which is just in another 2 weeks! The past 3 weeks, we’ve been quarrelling non-stop. First incident was just me asking if he was very sure that the colleague was targeting at him. He blew off and basically said he want to break up. Me, being the loser me,...