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How to tell if you're losing interest or if your avoidant attachment style is flaring up?

I (30F) have been seeing a guy (30M) for about three months now and for the first two months things were going great and I was pretty damn infatuated. Then, out of the blue, I just sort of started feeling frustrated over small, stupid things that either didn't bother me initially or that I found cute in the beginning. As far as the relationship itself, nothing has happened at all -- no fights, no deep, dark secrets revealed or anything of the sort. ​ I've just found myself mourning the abundance of free time that I had when I was single, feeling annoyed about relatively minor things (him interrupting me/overtalking me and not getting the hint when I proceed to try to finish my sentence -- he literally just continues to talk over me). At this point, he's way more into me than I am into him which is the exact opposite of how things began. ​ He's been a really great partner aside from some traits that have started to grate on me (i.e. the overtalking and being really ...

/u/CupcakeFoxThrowaway on I'm not asexual, but never felt attracted to anyone?

Ehhh. I tend to be wary about all those micro labels tbh. They sound pretty made up and illegitimate. July 17, 2019 at 12:21AM

/u/Wiennernna on And the award for most ignorant human alive goes to...

As a person with autism spectrum disorder, I find it offensive that in our hubris we have forgotten that the only true spectrum is that of a Prism and light. Thus we are not the ones who get to decide whether something falls on a spectrum or not. July 17, 2019 at 12:17AM

Dating someone with a child

I’m a M23 and she’s F26 I just graduated college and I in no way have my life together. She has her life together is a single mom and we have been dating casually for about two months. I like her a lot and things are going great I even sometimes spend time with her kid and that’s fine but the whole situation ultimately makes me nervous I feel like I’m not responsible or ready or something to be in a committed relationship with someone with a kid but I don’t want things to end. Any advice friends of reddit? Submitted July 17, 2019 at 12:00AM I’m a M23 and she’s F26 I just graduated college and I in no way have my life together. She has her life together is a single mom and we have been dating casually for about two months. I like her a lot and things are going great I even sometimes spend time with her kid and that’s fine but the whole situation ultimately makes me nervous I feel like I’m not responsible or ready or something to be in a committed relationship with someone with a ...

How does one meet new people???

23 year old guy here, I dont get out much or meet new people ever. Never been in a real relationship. Now just lonely and depression is getting worse. I dont think I'm to bad looking from what i hear but whoknows... I'm in fairly good shape, have my own place , educated (4 years of university and a good job in my field), so I dont think I'm all that bad in those regards? I work in a fairly professional setting where the average person has kids around my age so I cant really make friends at work to well, I cant drink so going out to bars alone doesn't seem like an option, all my hobbies are different than %99 of people my age. Tinder and similar apps havent been doing me any good. Afraid if this keeps going I'll just start feeling even worse therefore making girls want to be around me less. I live in a fairly small city so there isnt a whole lot to do, even if there was what could a single person with few friends do to possibly meet a female? Even a friend that didn...

Is it me or him?

So I (21F) met this guy(22M) on OkCupid and we've been dating for like 1 1/2 months now. He seemed super sweet and kind at first, but I'm not so sure. On our dates he doesn't talk much. I feel pressured to guide the conversation because he doesn't talk about anything, just comments on what I say. He doesn't ask questions about me or anything, not even the basic stuff like asking when my birthday is or if I have siblings. And, sometimes he seems annoyed that I'm even talking and appears to be distant. Not distracted, but distant. It's frustrating but he swears he prefers listening. I mentioned this to him and the fact that he seems not to remember what I say. His first explanation was he has short term memory loss from a medication. The next explanation that he gave was that we'd learn about eachother over time so we don't have to ask eachother questions. The third explanation he gave was that he's "trying his best to get to know me"....

I'm into a gir that looks like she is into me and I may leave the state. Don't know what to do

So there is this girl I like and we used to hang out after work alot when i visited her office (we are at different offices) and she left the company. Last time I saw her was two months ago and we had brunch together and after that she left out of town for her birthday with family. During her trip I noticed she blocked me from viewing her stories but I can see her posts and profile and she also looks at my stories when I post. I want to ask her out to see if I good terms and know if I still have a shot cause I really have a interview out of state and I am worried if I get it I will miss my shot with her or get my closer. I just want to know and maybe say how I feel cause really if I am leaving the state why not just say how I feel and see but again I don't know how to ask her out without being so straight forward like " hey long time want to catch up?". Anyways I just don't know what to do in my situation. Submitted July 17, 2019 at 12:08AM So there is this gir...