I feel pretty much the same way. You seem pretty ace. I like kissing and even making out and stuff, but my attraction to those people ends there. It took me a long time to realize that sensual and sexual attraction are not the same bc most people associate them with each other, and I feel the first one, so I just assumed that I felt the other, but I don't. Too bad that allo people tend to expect sensual stuff like making out and cuddling to lead to sex oh well yeehaw June 17, 2019 at 12:17AM

I'm 17 years old, this girl and I were crazy in love with each other last year and each one's favorite and loved each other to the point where it would bother me/her if one of us gave a lot of attention to another person . Anyways... I confessed, she confessed we dated for only 2 days pfft problems happened and then we stopped talking for 6 months after I decided to cut off everything with her and I left her with 66 messages where she expressed her anger on chat. anyways we became friends again after that period of time after i talked to her and told her i want us to become friends again but i still feel something for her... it's been 2 months we're friends, things are ok but we don't talk a lot, nthg like before ... I mean sometimes she ignores me and sometimes she doesn't which leaves me confused and idk if she still feels smthg for me... maybe she does but she's afraid of going back to fighting and drifting apart so she's not showing any signs.. or m...

Hello advocates of Love, i've got a question for you. Just to be clear i'm talking of romantic love of any form. Do you think love is essential to a fullfilling life? If yes, how much of it is it? Can you imagine living without it? If not, how'd you cope with the lack of it? And of course the biggest question, how did you find yours? Might seem like weird, obvious questions but I'm curious because I haven't been able to learn it myself. And I feel like it's different for everyone and since it's the biggest thing that moves the hearts of people, I want to know about it. Submitted June 16, 2019 at 11:39PM Hello advocates of Love, i've got a question for you. Just to be clear i'm talking of romantic love of any form.Do you think love is essential to a fullfilling life? If yes, how much of it is it?Can you imagine living without it? If not, how'd you cope with the lack of it?And of course the biggest question, how did you find yours?Might ...

Thank you so much 💜💜💜 this is really reassuring June 17, 2019 at 12:13AM

I know I'm over thinking too much. Their are a lot of other things that could make or break it. I really don't know him all that well so I just need to take it slow. Thanks again. I really wasn't expecting that well of a response lol. June 17, 2019 at 12:12AM

Any other finger is for swinger June 17, 2019 at 12:11AM

I get this a lot. I used to do this a lot more than I do now. Being closeted and if I'm being honest, a little bit self-loathing about being ace really triggered my impostor syndrome. I used to look at people all the time and wonder if I could ever possibly feel sexual attraction for them, wonder if my aesthetic or sensual attraction was sexual, just doubt after doubt. Being out to no one made it a little worse bc it felt like I could still "back out" of being ace if I ever started to feel sexual attraction. I'm not ready to fully come out, but confiding my sexuality to people I felt safe with helped, and confronting my internalized aphobia, so to speak, helped, and therapy (with a therapist who was trained in LGBT+ sensitivity) helped. I didn't go to the therapist for this but for something else, but we ended up talking about my asexuality and my impostor syndrome a lot. Just basically realizing that I wasn't totally okay with being ace right off the bat and...