We're taking things slow, Met few times. I am generally nervous of messing things up, last time we met I couldn't stop thinking how pretty she looked (especially with what she was wearing), is it something that one can usually text after date? Submitted June 08, 2019 at 11:32PM We're taking things slow, Met few times. I am generally nervous of messing things up, last time we met I couldn't stop thinking how pretty she looked (especially with what she was wearing), is it something that one can usually text after date?

Hello everyone! Thanks in advance for any advice you can give. The only one I really talk to about this in depth to is my brother, so I figured I would try to get some advice from the people of reddit. Alright, some backstory on the situation. We're both are servers at the same job, we met because she was new and didn't know how to finish her report at the end of her shift, one of the other girls from work sent her my way and said I knew what the numbers meant so I helped her out. From there on we would talk every shift we worked together and it was just fun and flirty. One of the other girls at work asked me if I wanted them to set me up with the girl I like (I didn't realize that she was cousins with the girl until after that conversation). I told her no, walked up and asked her if she wanted to go on a date myself, she said yes and gave me her number. From that point on, we've: gone out to get ice cream, went to get dinner after work, go driving around for a coupl...

On CMB, I matched with a university professor who did his graduate studies at my alma mater. It wasn't difficult to find info about him online - he is absolutely everywhere on the web. He seems way too good to be true - Air Force grad, Ivy League PhD, very tall, athletic, and articulate. There are YouTube videos of him giving interviews. He asked to meet up and chat, but I said I was going out of town for a week (true). I asked to meet up the week after, and he said he was going out of town too, but that we could meet in 3 weeks. I double texted him one time and he didn't respond to my last message after he said he was out of town until late June. ​ I'm wondering if I should reach out to him in 3 weeks or if I should just not bother. I have never had to double text a guy, so I'm thinking he's not interested. It seems like an attractive guy like him has a lot of options. He's out of my league. ​ I'm asking my friends and they're saying he's way t...

This is what happened to me, I guess (33m), after 2 months. I confessed to her, I said that I wanted her to be my girlfriend, that this situation isn't working for me anymore because I'm starting to fall in love; she said no, we're not compatible, that I'm 'too sensitive', that she didn't fall in love with me, that we were 'an experiment' to eachother etc. That's all fine and well, but when I went to say hi to her after some 10 days, she was acting very cold and indifferent. Perhaps she thought that I was going to try and be friends with her again. Or she simply got bored with me. I feel like a crazy person for confessing, for not sticking around longer, waiting for something to happen organically (if it ever could). I was really stressed out during our time together, because even if it was beautiful at times, I felt that she was out of my reach... I just don't know what even happened, how I came to this stage so quickly. And I think that i...

I really need a serious answer to stop my head from exploding. I have gotten several answered that even if a guy not wanting children is a deal breaker for the women, the guy saying, its a deal breaker sounds "controlling". To me it sounds bratty tbh, and something only immature people would say in the first place. If both people want the same thing, then why the fuck is it a turn off to either person to be open about it being a deal breaker? Submitted June 09, 2019 at 12:01AM I really need a serious answer to stop my head from exploding. I have gotten several answered that even if a guy not wanting children is a deal breaker for the women, the guy saying, its a deal breaker sounds "controlling". To me it sounds bratty tbh, and something only immature people would say in the first place.If both people want the same thing, then why the fuck is it a turn off to either person to be open about it being a deal breaker?

Hello people! I'm 19 y/o male. For summer break I'm working as a lifeguard at a water park. I really like one of my supervisors, shes funny, cute, and smart. However, we only ever talk about work. Sure, we make jokes etc, but it never delves into our personal lives. I thought the best time to get to know her would be during lunch, but everyone has lunch at different times because of position rotations. I have only been working there for a week, and I have the entire summer to get to know her. ​ I have a feeling if we continue to get along we will naturally start to talk more about our personal lives. Also, she is technically one of my supervisors, but shes only a year older and their isn't that feeling of her being my boss. ​ Tips are appreciated! Thanks! Submitted June 09, 2019 at 12:15AM Hello people!I'm 19 y/o male. For summer break I'm working as a lifeguard at a water park. I really like one of my supervisors, shes funny, cute, and smart. However, ...

I (33f) admittedly spasmed and messed things up with a solid guy (46m). I got insecure about stuff and caused tension. Last month I said I needed time away and then I reached out to him after a few weeks. He use to call or text once a day but since we've started talking again, he has felt distant and hasn't communicated as much. We sat down and he said he's just incredibly busy between his kids and his office is crazy for the next two months. I asked if we were back to normal, more than friends, and he said yes we are. But he called to say hi once this week. I don’t want to add stress by trying to make plans if it’s truly just him being busy but I’m worried there’s still tension. Any advice on how to proceed? Act like everything is normal. Call a few times a week, text every other day, do some nice things for him. Send nudes haha OR drop lunch once a week (something I typically do) but only text once a week and just hang back and give him space. thanks :) Submitted Jun...