I usually approach this question and these topics with great diplomacy, but I'm feeling angry and I wrote this in a saddened state of mind, so please don't take it on you. If I were approaching this as a debate and not a rant, I would have expressed myself a lot differently, but rants are not about convincing. Hell, I don't even know if this subreddit allows it, I don't know where to express myself and It's starting to really build up. ​ I have observed and experienced throughout my life (22 y/o) the growth of several ideas. That relationships have to be temporary, that the concept of "love for life" is repressive and frowned upon, that sexuality comes before love, that people should always put their own interests first, that you need to "leave people and let them work their problems out" instead of caring enough to really help them work it through. ​ I keep seeing those ideas drilling through so many relationships everywhere I turn to look,...

I think falling in love is a pretty unique thing. And once it happens I don’t think you can ever fall out of love. No matter what you do or try to do, that feeling will never go away. You can mask it with friendship or try to eliminate it root and stem by going no contact. You can even try to deny it through space and time. But you can never fall out of love. Those who claim to have “fallen” out of love, I would argue never really fell in love to begin with. For example, I love my wife. We’ve been together for 20 years. I know all of her ins and outs and we have a wonder life. Our sex life is great, we have common goals and plans. We are raising two beautiful children. All of the tell tale signs point to a match made in heaven. Except one thing, I know I’m not in love with her. If I’m honest with myself, we never really fell in love. This love grew over time and is strong and is a foundation for a great life. But falling in love comes once in a lifetime and I know she and I didn’t fal...

I don't really feel deep emotions for my parents or siblings who have always been there and have always been loving and present also they are together so I don't even understand why I don't really believe in monogamy. I have trouble saying I love you to partners because I feel like like I'm lying. It just doesn't feel real for me. I recently had a heart break up but honestly I think it was due to the fact that it was the first guy to do the same thing I always do when I get bored of a person (letting them go abruptly) I might sound like a bitch but I'm always honest from the very the beginning, I didn't even wanted a serious relationship until I met that guy who had all the characteristics that I wanted in a partner, so did I even wanted him in the first place? I'm worried this is not normal and eventually people notice idgaf about them because I get tired of forcing myself to act and feel a certain way, the more I grow up the more introverted I become...

I miss her so much. I used to have that one person whom i share my sorrows with and even my happiness. I'm going through alot now and i need someone there for me. I still love her more than ever and i try to keep myself busy but everytime i pause i find myself thinking of her. Sometimes i say i hate her out of frustration cause ever since she left me(she left me cause she said she simply fell out of love and she is thinking of her future and her friend(girl) pressured her to leave me) she never talked to me or asked about how I'm doing. I feel like umma explode. Submitted May 26, 2019 at 06:18PM I miss her so much. I used to have that one person whom i share my sorrows with and even my happiness. I'm going through alot now and i need someone there for me. I still love her more than ever and i try to keep myself busy but everytime i pause i find myself thinking of her. Sometimes i say i hate her out of frustration cause ever since she left me(she left me cause she sai...

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So there’s this boy, and the way he laughs makes me smile. And the way he talks when he’s passionate about something brings butterflies to my stomach. Everything about him just makes me happy. I’m catching myself falling head over heels. He was such an unexpected love, but here I am daydreaming and writing shitty poetry about him. I can’t get him off my mind. Submitted May 26, 2019 at 07:09PM So there’s this boy, and the way he laughs makes me smile. And the way he talks when he’s passionate about something brings butterflies to my stomach. Everything about him just makes me happy.I’m catching myself falling head over heels. He was such an unexpected love, but here I am daydreaming and writing shitty poetry about him.I can’t get him off my mind.

Hello redditers! I don't know if I am even allowed to do this here, but I wanted to give it a try. I am preparing a bday surprise for my girlfriend and I had an idea to ask people all around the world to make a short video somewhere near some remarkable, special place for the country you're making a video from. You would need to say some short text and that wouls be it. If there's anyone willing to help me and to be a part of this please send me a message. I'd be very, very, very grateful if you help me with this! Submitted May 26, 2019 at 09:51PM Hello redditers! I don't know if I am even allowed to do this here, but I wanted to give it a try. I am preparing a bday surprise for my girlfriend and I had an idea to ask people all around the world to make a short video somewhere near some remarkable, special place for the country you're making a video from. You would need to say some short text and that wouls be it. If there's anyone willing to help me a...