Outrageous demands from men.

So today I was hit up on by a guy in the street and we talked a bit and exchanged snapchats. Before saying goodbye he told me that he was looking for something not serious, like going on dates and eating out ect but no relationship (i didn’t even ask him nor did I really care but okay…) then when he contacted me on snapchat he said we could eat together and go to his hotel. I told him that to be honest what he is looking for is not my type of thing at all but we still cool. He insisted and said he’ll give me goos sx. I did not answer and deleted him. Here is my question. I saw a video of a guy saying guys would come to certain girls because they feel that the girl is approchable bc she’s mid and would take anything while certain girls are so stunning that guys would not even dare talk to them. I am so offended by what this guy asked me because i’m not into having sx with a stranger, and for some reason he felt comfortable asking me that? does that mean i look like i’d want that? it’s not the first time something like that happens to me and it always shocks because i’m like, do i look like a girl that will give you cooch just like that, without any bound, without being seduced, just f*cking a guy for no reason? I am pissed off and offended. What do you guys think about this?

Submitted October 11, 2023 at 12:16AM

So today I was hit up on by a guy in the street and we talked a bit and exchanged snapchats. Before saying goodbye he told me that he was looking for something not serious, like going on dates and eating out ect but no relationship (i didn’t even ask him nor did I really care but okay…) then when he contacted me on snapchat he said we could eat together and go to his hotel. I told him that to be honest what he is looking for is not my type of thing at all but we still cool. He insisted and said he’ll give me goos sx. I did not answer and deleted him. Here is my question. I saw a video of a guy saying guys would come to certain girls because they feel that the girl is approchable bc she’s mid and would take anything while certain girls are so stunning that guys would not even dare talk to them. I am so offended by what this guy asked me because i’m not into having sx with a stranger, and for some reason he felt comfortable asking me that? does that mean i look like i’d want that? it’s not the first time something like that happens to me and it always shocks because i’m like, do i look like a girl that will give you cooch just like that, without any bound, without being seduced, just f*cking a guy for no reason? I am pissed off and offended. What do you guys think about this?