little heart broken today :)

I've been a single mother for several years now. There's a mutual acquaintance who has been in a terribly toxic marriage for quite some time. He recently confided in me that he's separated from his spouse. Over the years, I've come to know him as a genuinely kind-hearted person.

I couldn't help but feel a connection with him, although I did not shared my feelings with him because I believe in healing first and I was unsure if he had healed. However, he recently mentioned that he's found someone wonderful who fulfils all his criteria. I'm genuinely happy for him, but I must admit, I felt a bit "ouch".

I also wonder if it might have been wiser for him to take more time to heal and reflect after the separation from his long-term marriage. Of course, I understand that everyone's journey is unique, and it's not my place to judge. May God bless him.

I just needed to share my feelings today and could use a virtual hug or two. I am ok for the most part though. All is well.

Submitted October 04, 2023 at 12:16AM

I've been a single mother for several years now. There's a mutual acquaintance who has been in a terribly toxic marriage for quite some time. He recently confided in me that he's separated from his spouse. Over the years, I've come to know him as a genuinely kind-hearted person.I couldn't help but feel a connection with him, although I did not shared my feelings with him because I believe in healing first and I was unsure if he had healed. However, he recently mentioned that he's found someone wonderful who fulfils all his criteria. I'm genuinely happy for him, but I must admit, I felt a bit "ouch". I also wonder if it might have been wiser for him to take more time to heal and reflect after the separation from his long-term marriage. Of course, I understand that everyone's journey is unique, and it's not my place to judge. May God bless him.I just needed to share my feelings today and could use a virtual hug or two. I am ok for the most part though. All is well.