Are last minute dates worth it? Ive been talking to him for a month and he asks me out for tomorrow night.

I 30f have matched with a guy 39m who ive matched with in the past but i guess it fizzled out. At first I was excited to start talking to him again. This time, we matched again and we never stopped talking, but he responds like once a day. Convo overall is pretty good though.

So it's been a month of talking, I had pretty much given up on him asking me out. Most guys on the apps try to ask me out ASAP or if uninterested they'd likely ghost or let the convo die, so it's a bit weird. Now today he mentioned how I kept my weekend open so do I want to go for a drink tomorrow night (he asked like an hour ago it's Thursday night). At this point I was planning on going to a nice yoga class by myself or something. Do you think last minute dates are worth it or is he a waste of time?



Submitted October 27, 2023 at 12:09AM

I 30f have matched with a guy 39m who ive matched with in the past but i guess it fizzled out. At first I was excited to start talking to him again. This time, we matched again and we never stopped talking, but he responds like once a day. Convo overall is pretty good though.So it's been a month of talking, I had pretty much given up on him asking me out. Most guys on the apps try to ask me out ASAP or if uninterested they'd likely ghost or let the convo die, so it's a bit weird. Now today he mentioned how I kept my weekend open so do I want to go for a drink tomorrow night (he asked like an hour ago it's Thursday night). At this point I was planning on going to a nice yoga class by myself or something. Do you think last minute dates are worth it or is he a waste of time?

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