Boyfriend told me to put some makeup on to go to the gym with him

My boyfriend and I were planning to go to the gym and he told me to “look cute and put ur makeup on and hair and stuff so I can show u off”

And I’m like put makeup on? Not to say I haven’t to the gym but usually not intentionally. Usually after I like go to work or school and am too lazy to wash my face before the gym

How would y’all take this? He said he didn’t meAn if that way but how else am I suppose to take it 🥲

Asking me to look nice vs cover up my face feel like very two different things 🥲 idk if I’m being too dramatic but my feelings are hurt by the request.

Also he said I never try to look good for him. Like I do but he doesn’t see me everyday and when he does we are going to work out or I come over his house late and we just lay in bed and watch movies. It’s not like I never look nice it’s just majority of the time we don’t do shit 😭

Not to mention I’m honestly just busy and exhausted and stressed all the time from going school full time. I am also in flight school so I am also just broke and keeping up with beauty either takes time or money and I have neither. I only have time to study and money to fly. I’m not at a point in my life where I can be consistent all the time.

We recently took a trip to dc and I looked my cutest all weekend! Spent money on extensions, nails, makeup, and took the time to pamper myself. Meanwhile he didn’t even bother to get a haircut for the trip.

I pointed that out and he told me that “his hair looks good naturally” and I was like ok well all I was saying is I don’t feel the need to be to told to makeup on to go to the gym bc I feel like I’m cute naturally 🥲

I’m also triggered by the fact my mom always use to want me to wear makeup everywhere and she would sound let down when I showed up bare face saying things like “why didn’t you wear your makeup I wanted everyone to see how pretty you are” or she would say like “that looks good on you, it’s gonna look really good when you put ur makeup on”

Submitted May 25, 2023 at 12:14AM

My boyfriend and I were planning to go to the gym and he told me to “look cute and put ur makeup on and hair and stuff so I can show u off”And I’m like put makeup on? Not to say I haven’t to the gym but usually not intentionally. Usually after I like go to work or school and am too lazy to wash my face before the gym How would y’all take this? He said he didn’t meAn if that way but how else am I suppose to take it 🥲Asking me to look nice vs cover up my face feel like very two different things 🥲 idk if I’m being too dramatic but my feelings are hurt by the request. Also he said I never try to look good for him. Like I do but he doesn’t see me everyday and when he does we are going to work out or I come over his house late and we just lay in bed and watch movies. It’s not like I never look nice it’s just majority of the time we don’t do shit 😭 Not to mention I’m honestly just busy and exhausted and stressed all the time from going school full time. I am also in flight school so I am also just broke and keeping up with beauty either takes time or money and I have neither. I only have time to study and money to fly. I’m not at a point in my life where I can be consistent all the time.We recently took a trip to dc and I looked my cutest all weekend! Spent money on extensions, nails, makeup, and took the time to pamper myself. Meanwhile he didn’t even bother to get a haircut for the trip. I pointed that out and he told me that “his hair looks good naturally” and I was like ok well all I was saying is I don’t feel the need to be to told to makeup on to go to the gym bc I feel like I’m cute naturally 🥲 I’m also triggered by the fact my mom always use to want me to wear makeup everywhere and she would sound let down when I showed up bare face saying things like “why didn’t you wear your makeup I wanted everyone to see how pretty you are” or she would say like “that looks good on you, it’s gonna look really good when you put ur makeup on”