Begged him not to go to his class

I (23F) have been seeing this guy (31M) for a little over a month now. We are exclusive and he obviously really likes me back. But my anxious attachment really gets the best of me.

He has had to kick me out of his place 3 times now all of which I have literally begged him to spend more time with me. Last night we went on a really good date and he talked about how we can spend more time together now and maybe even go on a trip. However, I stayed the whole of the next day while he worked and when he was getting done I started asking him when he’s done implying that we’re gonna hang out etc. he told me he has to go for his class and I started begging him not to go. When he told me he has to I got mad and left right away. He hasn’t texted me since and idk how to get back from this. I want to be less crazy and needy but it seems to just come out.



Submitted April 26, 2023 at 01:16AM

I (23F) have been seeing this guy (31M) for a little over a month now. We are exclusive and he obviously really likes me back. But my anxious attachment really gets the best of me. He has had to kick me out of his place 3 times now all of which I have literally begged him to spend more time with me. Last night we went on a really good date and he talked about how we can spend more time together now and maybe even go on a trip. However, I stayed the whole of the next day while he worked and when he was getting done I started asking him when he’s done implying that we’re gonna hang out etc. he told me he has to go for his class and I started begging him not to go. When he told me he has to I got mad and left right away. He hasn’t texted me since and idk how to get back from this. I want to be less crazy and needy but it seems to just come out.
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