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For context I really like this girl when we first started talking it was perfect then the first time I met her it was easy and not awkward at all. After the first time I spent every night there for at least 2 weeks straight. But randomly she says she doesn’t want a relationship and I ask her what she wants and she says she doesn’t know but likes talking to me. We keep talking I try giving her space because maybe shes burnt out we still text daily and she says she misses me but I try to make plans to do something and she says “idkkk I don’t wanna like be mean to u just cause I get irritated man and I still been being irritated” so I say “you just don’t wanna hang” she said no that’s not it and idk.Then she just changes the conversation so I Try to see if she just doesn’t want to hurt my feelings by saying “if you really get that irritated around me then just say you don’t wanna hang” then she says “it’s fr everybody I’m just not a people person” in her defense she really isn’t she hates her friends talks bad about them then hangs out with them the next day like they are best friends. She just yesterday said I’m about to drop all my friends. But guess what she’s hanging out with them again. We text all day and she never takes longer then a hour to respond but she’s always on her phone. Idk what to do she said yesterday she wishes I was mean I then ask what’s she means and of course she saids idk then says I want you to know what you want when you want it. What should I do?

Submitted February 19, 2022 at 01:19AM

For context I really like this girl when we first started talking it was perfect then the first time I met her it was easy and not awkward at all. After the first time I spent every night there for at least 2 weeks straight. But randomly she says she doesn’t want a relationship and I ask her what she wants and she says she doesn’t know but likes talking to me. We keep talking I try giving her space because maybe shes burnt out we still text daily and she says she misses me but I try to make plans to do something and she says “idkkk I don’t wanna like be mean to u just cause I get irritated man and I still been being irritated” so I say “you just don’t wanna hang” she said no that’s not it and idk.Then she just changes the conversation so I Try to see if she just doesn’t want to hurt my feelings by saying “if you really get that irritated around me then just say you don’t wanna hang” then she says “it’s fr everybody I’m just not a people person” in her defense she really isn’t she hates her friends talks bad about them then hangs out with them the next day like they are best friends. She just yesterday said I’m about to drop all my friends. But guess what she’s hanging out with them again. We text all day and she never takes longer then a hour to respond but she’s always on her phone. Idk what to do she said yesterday she wishes I was mean I then ask what’s she means and of course she saids idk then says I want you to know what you want when you want it. What should I do?