Is he into me?

I (25F) recently come out of a long relationship and am sort of new to the OLD game. I met this guy who I think is very attractive.. although, he doesn't text much and talks a lot about himself... I'm having a hard time telling if he's just not into me or just doesn't have great social awareness (He's kind of nerdy) and I should message him.

Things that told me he was interested - Used the extend feature on Bumble when time was running out. - Asked me out for drinks early than what we had previously scheduled. - Bought our drinks (which came out to about 50 dollars because I got wine) - Seemed excited to talk to me. - We went back to his place and hooked up. He seemed interested in what I liked and what I wanted/ how to make me cum. - A couple minutes later we went for round two. - Tells me how hot/ attractive I am. - Tells me the next day that it was super fun and when I thanked him for drinks he said, anytime. - When I asked if he wanted to see me again he said he'd be down together again. - Gives me his number. - Our last conversation was me essentially telling him I'd like to bang again and to text me when he's free. He said that he would like that a lot.

Things that told me he's not interested - When we were chatting he asks the same questions I've asked him but doesn't ask a different question, unless It was asking how my day was. - When we met he mostly talked about himself besides the odd question to me. He seemed really excited/ funny so idk if this was a nervous thing/ something to avoid silence. - It's been 4 days since I last text him the thing about hanging out again. He never said he would text me back or hasn't set up a day yet (just what he said about liking that a lot)

I'm okay with things being casual as I'm not looking to be in a monogamous/ serious relationship. Although, it does feel a bit bad not getting a single text in 4 days and I would prefer a little more engagement. I'm not sure what to do. I really enjoyed his company and it's a lot of work to go through bumble again and make sure someone is not a creep or a catfish. I also don't know if this is just normal. When I first started talking with my now ex-boyfriend he was very interested in learning about me/ asking questions (but that's also what he is like with everyone).

Submitted February 15, 2022 at 12:09AM

I (25F) recently come out of a long relationship and am sort of new to the OLD game. I met this guy who I think is very attractive.. although, he doesn't text much and talks a lot about himself... I'm having a hard time telling if he's just not into me or just doesn't have great social awareness (He's kind of nerdy) and I should message him.Things that told me he was interested - Used the extend feature on Bumble when time was running out. - Asked me out for drinks early than what we had previously scheduled. - Bought our drinks (which came out to about 50 dollars because I got wine) - Seemed excited to talk to me. - We went back to his place and hooked up. He seemed interested in what I liked and what I wanted/ how to make me cum. - A couple minutes later we went for round two. - Tells me how hot/ attractive I am. - Tells me the next day that it was super fun and when I thanked him for drinks he said, anytime. - When I asked if he wanted to see me again he said he'd be down together again. - Gives me his number. - Our last conversation was me essentially telling him I'd like to bang again and to text me when he's free. He said that he would like that a lot.Things that told me he's not interested - When we were chatting he asks the same questions I've asked him but doesn't ask a different question, unless It was asking how my day was. - When we met he mostly talked about himself besides the odd question to me. He seemed really excited/ funny so idk if this was a nervous thing/ something to avoid silence. - It's been 4 days since I last text him the thing about hanging out again. He never said he would text me back or hasn't set up a day yet (just what he said about liking that a lot)I'm okay with things being casual as I'm not looking to be in a monogamous/ serious relationship. Although, it does feel a bit bad not getting a single text in 4 days and I would prefer a little more engagement. I'm not sure what to do. I really enjoyed his company and it's a lot of work to go through bumble again and make sure someone is not a creep or a catfish. I also don't know if this is just normal. When I first started talking with my now ex-boyfriend he was very interested in learning about me/ asking questions (but that's also what he is like with everyone).