Ldr

I was in long distance relationship with a bossy/tomboy girl since a month, she had abusive exes only had one relationship in person rest of them were online, had shitty dating life, always tried to dominate the conversation when we were in a relationship once she was playing a game she had a target to reach above 50,000 score I called her and she immediately lost the game when I told her it's just a game she immediately cut the call which was obviously rude , then afterwards I left her messages on seen where she said things like are you breaking up with me etc etc I woke up next morning and forgave her immediately , recently she went to her job without informing me ,and immediately disappeared out of nowhere I called and messaged her ,she left my messages on seen without a response I called her no response she came back and told me you made me almost lose my job thanks to you I said sorry to her multiple times but she said I need proof of your sorry because I've been hurt multiple times so prove me your sorry I said I don't know how to provide proof I messaged her after five days still she asked for proof and then she broke up with me I said I'll bend to my feet and say sorry to you she said you could've said this before , afterwards she said we can still be friends ,I told her you cannot be friend's with someone you love ,and when I tried patching up with her she said we broke up an hour ago this is not how it works etc etc couple of hours later she said I am missing you wanna date you but when I said to her after few minutes I wanna date you she said we can't date automatically like that... I'm confused what to do any help her birthday is on 26 th should I just wish her and then ignore her altogether.

Submitted January 26, 2022 at 12:07AM

I was in long distance relationship with a bossy/tomboy girl since a month, she had abusive exes only had one relationship in person rest of them were online, had shitty dating life, always tried to dominate the conversation when we were in a relationship once she was playing a game she had a target to reach above 50,000 score I called her and she immediately lost the game when I told her it's just a game she immediately cut the call which was obviously rude , then afterwards I left her messages on seen where she said things like are you breaking up with me etc etc I woke up next morning and forgave her immediately , recently she went to her job without informing me ,and immediately disappeared out of nowhere I called and messaged her ,she left my messages on seen without a response I called her no response she came back and told me you made me almost lose my job thanks to you I said sorry to her multiple times but she said I need proof of your sorry because I've been hurt multiple times so prove me your sorry I said I don't know how to provide proof I messaged her after five days still she asked for proof and then she broke up with me I said I'll bend to my feet and say sorry to you she said you could've said this before , afterwards she said we can still be friends ,I told her you cannot be friend's with someone you love ,and when I tried patching up with her she said we broke up an hour ago this is not how it works etc etc couple of hours later she said I am missing you wanna date you but when I said to her after few minutes I wanna date you she said we can't date automatically like that... I'm confused what to do any help her birthday is on 26 th should I just wish her and then ignore her altogether.