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Girl asks for sex then ghosts? am i being lead on

me [22m] first time dating, got this [19f] number from bumble a month ago and been on 2 dates so far. she didn’t even let me kiss her on the lips only cheeks , but asking to have sex? ”i said “come spend the night” and tried calling but her phones always goes straight to voicemail when i call.she said “when” i said “rn if u wanna fuck we can watch netflix n cuddle” then ghosted?? told her i don’t wanna pressure her if she doesn’t wanna have sex yet.i text her next day asking her fav sex positions (lol) she told me.is she like tryna lead me on or something because she’s super ghosty in general. she ghosts whenever i try flirt and bring up seeing her over text aswell since it’s been over a month since we couldn’t see eachother cause she went back home for Christmas.she did 1 time ask to meet up at a park tho so idk. she said she was nervous but i’m not buying it. last text was me telling her i wanna see her this week. i will not text her again,i just wanna know if i’m acting desperate,...

I told her I liked her months ago, got rejected, but she convinced me to stay friends.

We hung out 3-4 times, and then I told her I liked her, and she said I am like a brother to her, and that she thinks there is no chemistry. The I told her I do not want to stay in touch, because we do not have enough in common to be just friends. Like a common interest, or any reason to hang out without being intimate. And I do not just mean sex, I mean having intimate conversations, sharing feelings, dreams, being partners in life. I am looking for different qualities in a friendship. I told her all of this, and she convinced me to stay in touch. Mainly because I do not have any friends, and I have to start somewhere... This has been months ago. We hung out once, met a few times talking a little, but mostly, we are writing text messages or talking on the phone. The rejection still hurts a little to be honest, I still like her in some ways, I still value our phone conversations in some ways. To be clear, I am not interested in dating her anymore, I did not try to stay friends hopi...

/u/Ideasforgoodusername on Is it strange that I wont mind a parther who only likes me romantically?

It’s not strange, especially in ace circles. Personally I would prefer either romantic without kissing or a deep, platonic partnership too. January 19, 2024 at 11:17PM

/u/Abrahamfreeman on Thoughts on watching naked/ half naked people

I just watched my friend naked getting out of the bathroom naked and i see this sub January 19, 2024 at 11:07PM

Can't understand my feelings

I (20M) am a university student and was preparing for the exams with my friends last summer. The friend group consists 6 people and 3 of them know each other from high school. During this study period, a girl (21) (let's say Kate) that is their friend from high school but wasn't around too much since she studies different subject at a different building. After 1-2 days she started to hang out with us, one of the girls (20) (Sarah) that knows her from the high school and that is also someone I consider a good friend started to talk to me privately about how good we look together. I was very busy in that period so I said that I'm not interested in her. Even though I said that several times, she continued to tell these stuff and went even further talk about this in public. This happened nearly everyday for a month. I think it wouldn't happen if Kate wasn't happy about it. However, I said "no" and "I'm not interested" at first and kept this stan...

/u/ThatLaughingbear on How do I respond to this guy?

Don’t? January 17, 2024 at 11:23PM

/u/AstronautNo321 on 💯

that's wild. January 17, 2024 at 11:20PM