Here comes a shitty header and sorry for whiny post below. I want to ask for advises (hoping for serious advice), as I'm in an unique situation where anyone who know me, read this and will know this is me. Maybe I'll even get backlashes since it's reddit(mercy please) In context, I (F 33) met a guy(M 30)through at least 3 coincidences which lead to us meeting in an dating event (singles event which I didn't emwnt to join)we attended. During the event and after we found more coincidences and similarities in hobbies (we like manga, anime etc). We went for first date 1 week after, I thought it went well. He already told me his goals in relationship (only serious, married for love aft dating 2yrs and have kid by what age etc) which the timeline I might not be able to meet (more into it later) At first I wanted to keep my option open and date more guys since I was out of dating scene for 6yrs and felt it just feel crazy if I just go for the first guy who approached me. B...

If a girl who is in a relationship knows that a guy likes her (from the way that he is looking at her when they are in the same place, by liking her selfies/stories etc) and it is pretty obvious that he is waiting to shoot his shot, if he hasn’t done it already, why not to hide her stories from him or unfollow him (they both follow each other)? In order to make it clear that she doesn’t want him to flirt her or to make an approach. Also if you knew that someone likes you why to look at him multiple times in a very intentional way? Isn’t that kinda flirty? I think that despite being in a relationship she acts like she wants to be approached. What’s your opinion? Submitted December 24, 2023 at 12:14AM If a girl who is in a relationship knows that a guy likes her (from the way that he is looking at her when they are in the same place, by liking her selfies/stories etc) and it is pretty obvious that he is waiting to shoot his shot, if he hasn’t done it already, why not to hide he...

I'm very repulsed; I would definitely be uncomfortable seeing anything like that. December 22, 2023 at 11:48PM

We’ve been texting for a couple of weeks and she said she trusts me and said I had a great personality, which she was looking for in a guy. We’ve shared pics and everything but she recently went through a break up and said she needed time to think because she was afraid of going into a new relationship. I told her that I respect that decision and I also appreciate the honesty, but whatever decision she makes it, I made it known that it is hers and I eon’t say a thing. In the end she told me after confessing that she didn’t refuse the idea of us being together, but also wants to go slowly through the decision and even brought up voice calls instead of text. Do you guys think there might be a chance? If there was a chance, how do I not ruin it?( I’m really afraid of ruining it and I really really like her. ) How do I move on with this, what should I discuss with her over the phone? Submitted December 22, 2023 at 12:12AM We’ve been texting for a couple of weeks and she said she t...

Hello everyone, I've been a long-time lurker, but this is my first time posting. I need some advice regarding a relationship I'm in. I (25M) have known this girl (26F, let's call her A) for a year now. Everything about A was amazing until two months ago when we started dating. I am serious about her and want to marry her as soon as we both know each other well enough. However, I'm facing a few issues and don't know how to navigate them. Recently, A took this examination, and her result was out a couple of months ago. She failed in every paper with huge margins, but the problem is that she showed everyone a different result that turned out to be fake and edited (she still showed everyone that she failed but just one paper and by barely a few marks) I discovered this from a mutual friend, who heard it from another mutual of A (let's call her M). A initially denied it, claiming that M was lying because he had feelings for her and she rejected him (this is another...

I (37m/fluid) feel inconsistent, keep neurotically changing my dating profile daily, and am wondering if anyone can help me feel settled or more certain about what I'm looking for... I've only had one 12yr LTR and besides that have been on maybe 15 other dates in my life. I prefer close connections and great familiarity before anything sexual, but I also don't really expect anything to last and am very rarely attracted. Part of my impetus in looking for "casual" is that even when I'm attracted it's inconsistent and often impermanent. I think I'm just looking for short term (3-12 dates with some hooking up) but am consciously aiming for not just a ONS but enough of a connection that it's somewhere in-between a hookup and dating. I wouldn't want to end a good thing... but I have very rarely (only 3x) felt like something could last. I feel too bad about perpetuating expectations or misleading anyone to reside in seductions, and I very commonly s...

Kind of a rant. But I cant fucking stand chatting. Either Im just really bad at it or super emotionally unavailable, but ts just so boring. HoW wAs YouR DaY? GoodMorNiNG. goOdNigHt. 🤮 Im not interested in sexting or nudes or anything like that either. Why cant it just be "Hey, lets meet at 19:00 at X bar on next Friday and forget about each other in the mean time?" "Sounds good lets do that!". When im at home and my partner is physically not there I just want to be in my little cave alone. Can you give me any example of non-boring chats? Submitted December 19, 2023 at 12:14AM Kind of a rant. But I cant fucking stand chatting. Either Im just really bad at it or super emotionally unavailable, but ts just so boring. HoW wAs YouR DaY? GoodMorNiNG. goOdNigHt. 🤮 Im not interested in sexting or nudes or anything like that either. Why cant it just be "Hey, lets meet at 19:00 at X bar on next Friday and forget about each other in the mean time?" "Sou...