I 18f have been seeing this guy 20m that I met at a college event a couple months back. We’ve been talking for like 2 months but due to college and assignments etc we weren’t able to meet up that much but when we did it was good but brief. He’s told me a good few times that he has loads of college work to do and once semesters over we’ll hang out more and he also apologised for being inactive . We were suppose to meet up on Thursday but he said he wasn’t feeling well and asked when next I’m free. So we both settled for Monday. Where I live is normally very chilly during the winter so I was wondering if it’ll be weird if I were to ask him if we can chill in his dorm and order food( our plan was to get food anyway). The first night I met him he did bring me to his dorm but I was too scared to go in because I had just met him that night and I didn’t want to do anything i wasn’t comfortable with so we just sat on the stairs instead. He’s never gave me any red flags or touched me inappr...

Sorry you had this bad experience. Another person here to say you aren’t alone. I had a sex with someone I had been friends with for about 4 months just to get it over with (wasn’t sexually attracted to him) and it really confirmed for me that 1. I can’t go through with oral sex (ever again), and 2. that I can’t have sex with someone who I’m not in a committed relationship with. I’m sex-indifferent, repulsed leaning… but I remember feeling so gross and sick to my stomach the next day thinking about it, I still I feel gross when I think about some of it… He’s the only person I’ve ever slept with and probably the only person I ever will, and I’m perfectly happy with that being the case. Anyway, i hope you feel better, again, sorry to hear you had that bad experience. December 08, 2023 at 11:01PM

Noooo. I stay away from Disney adults, not gonna lie. December 07, 2023 at 11:10PM

Hi all, I'm very new to the dating spade as a 21M, I matched with a girl a few days ago and we hit it off quite well in the texts I decided to ask her if she wanted to meet up this weekend but she said she's not available until January sadly but would really like to do so whenever she can, this isn't a problem for me as I'm only going to be here for 2 more weekends as I'll be going home for Christmas until January when I will be back first week of January, Is it worth me trying to continue this or is she just using it as an excuse not to meet up? Submitted December 07, 2023 at 12:17AM Hi all, I'm very new to the dating spade as a 21M, I matched with a girl a few days ago and we hit it off quite well in the texts I decided to ask her if she wanted to meet up this weekend but she said she's not available until January sadly but would really like to do so whenever she can, this isn't a problem for me as I'm only going to be here for 2 more weeke...

So I'm now a 26M. Since I was around 15, I've been fully in love with 2 people. Once broke my heart and cheated on me on prom night, and the other was a girl that was my best friend for 4 years, which never became anything more. Since then, I always found myself reminiscing about one or the other, and how much I truly loved each of them. From the emotional pain of each, I stopped looking for any relationships. I lost all interest in dating and in turn started to lose some self-esteem. Because of this lack of emotional attachment, I ended up becoming super close with my friends, which made me kind of emotionally dependant on them. One friend in particular and I would always hang out, go out, etc. His then girlfriend got super jealous and basically wrecked havoc upon our friendship because she thought we were too close... I still have some trauma from being called in the middle of the night being yelled at, or having to defend myself for actions that weren't wrong. This las...

I do orgasm with a partner yes, it's sometimes enjoyable and other times not. It often just feels a bit odd and foreign and it takes a lot for it to happen, and its honestly a bit hard to stay aroused fjfhjd. But alone i can achieve it no problem. I think it kind of depends, I'm actually sex indifferent but sometimes it'll tip more favorable (or less favorable). December 04, 2023 at 10:22PM

I’ve been talking to this guy for about a month and a half. We used to be friends back during middle school, and we’ve been talking on social media for a while. We’ve gotten really close, but we haven’t met in person yet. I’ve cancelled on him twice. I told him that I’m not ready and I tried to end things with him by saying I’m not in the right space mentally for a relationship or simply put even a connection that demands effort and attention. My work is incredibly busy as well, I work on a small team as an analyst and I don’t even have a moment to take a lunch break. He has kids so he’s pretty much limited on time as well. I communicated with him that I have a habit of going mia, being too overwhelmed to talk and that I’m not mentally able to be the person that he needs. I said I didn’t want to hurt him or waste his time. He also knows that I’m talking to other men. These were his responses: - that wouldn’t waste my taste - I’m fine before you and will be fine after - you can’t assum...