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i am paranoid when it comes to men. how do i get over this?

i have never been in a serious relationship, i go on dates but usually never progress past a couple dates. if i let myself catch feelings, there is usually a honeymoon phase where i think everything is perfect, i tell everyone i know about it, i feel like i've met the one. then eventually i start to pick everything apart and i get extremely paranoid about the guys i am seeing. i wonder if they are seeing other women, using me for only my body and many other issues. if i voice these concerns the guys will always console me and try to kill my paranoia but no amount of consoling will ever help. it just builds and builds until eventually i ruin it. every. single. time. i'm starting to think my lack of trust in other people and general paranoia means i will never get any further than two months with someone and i am really hoping that is not the case. anyone else been through something similar and any tips on how to learn to trust the people you're with? Submitted Novem...

Advice for meeting people without dating apps?

I really want to meet girls that play PC games and express unique interests, alt styles, etc. I find most people on dating apps are pretty similar. How can I meet more? I don't drink so bars aren't viable. I am in college and have seen a few girls I'm interested in but not talked to much, if at all. Submitted November 18, 2023 at 12:15AM I really want to meet girls that play PC games and express unique interests, alt styles, etc. I find most people on dating apps are pretty similar. How can I meet more? I don't drink so bars aren't viable. I am in college and have seen a few girls I'm interested in but not talked to much, if at all.

Signals

So this girl and I was good friends and then she got a bf and randomly removed me on insta and removed me from following her and removed me on Snapchat She still talks to me when we see each other in person and acts like she never removed me. Can anyone explain a reason. Submitted November 17, 2023 at 12:07AM So this girl and I was good friends and then she got a bf and randomly removed me on insta and removed me from following her and removed me on Snapchat She still talks to me when we see each other in person and acts like she never removed me. Can anyone explain a reason.

Who would have guessed the best dating advice comes from the Bible?

The Word of God tells us what someone who truly loves you will do, and what they will be like. What they will do: I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me, I was naked and you clothed me, I was sick and you visited me, I was in prison and you came to me. (Matthew 25:35-36) What they will be like: Love is patient and kind; love is not jealous or boastful; it is not arrogant or rude. Love does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrong, but rejoices in the right. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends. (1 Corinthians 13:4-8) Submitted November 17, 2023 at 12:15AM The Word of God tells us what someone who truly loves you will do, and what they will be like.What they will do:I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me, I was naked and...

/u/Shootthemoon4 on Was I heterophobic by saying "ew" after seeing a couple kissing?

Any person who says hetero phobic, makes me cringe deeply. Your friend ever watch her parents make out? Well, if she can imagine that and get grossed out that’s what that feels to you. November 15, 2023 at 11:09PM

How to know when a guy likes you?

How do you (guys) show you like a girl?? Or find her attractive at least? Submitted November 15, 2023 at 12:12AM How do you (guys) show you like a girl?? Or find her attractive at least?

Different financial situations.

I've (M39) been in the situation a few times where I meet someone, usually online, and they're nice, I like them, but we're not really on the same page with some things, namely goals and finances. I'm not rich and money isn't everything, but it is important. I've worked hard to get to this point and looking for the same, and someone around my age should kinda have things together by now. (I'd like to buy a house and maybe have kids eventually, and I'd never make it happen on my own.) I feel a little guilty turning them down, but I guess maybe we're not compatible? Submitted November 15, 2023 at 12:14AM I've (M39) been in the situation a few times where I meet someone, usually online, and they're nice, I like them, but we're not really on the same page with some things, namely goals and finances. I'm not rich and money isn't everything, but it is important. I've worked hard to get to this point and looking for the same, ...