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Ghosting

The last time I saw this man, he made me breakfast in bed. We hadn’t slept together but we just enjoyed our time together and I slept over for the second weekend in a row. He met my friends the weekend before. He said he liked me this past weekend and then out of no where I don’t hear from him in 6 days. He has been consistent for the past 2 months and then just nothing. No reply to three messages the last 6 days. He’s 31 and I’m 28. I’m just so confused because from his actions it felt right and going well. What the fuck happened? We had so many similarities and interest. Submitted November 12, 2023 at 12:10AM The last time I saw this man, he made me breakfast in bed. We hadn’t slept together but we just enjoyed our time together and I slept over for the second weekend in a row. He met my friends the weekend before. He said he liked me this past weekend and then out of no where I don’t hear from him in 6 days. He has been consistent for the past 2 months and then just nothing. ...

Got rejected because I got the covid vaccine

Everything was going great with this one women until she asked if I was vaccinated. She replied I'm not, and unmatched me. We were just about to make plans. This seems so ridiculous to me, is this the new normal? Submitted November 11, 2023 at 12:17AM Everything was going great with this one women until she asked if I was vaccinated. She replied I'm not, and unmatched me. We were just about to make plans.This seems so ridiculous to me, is this the new normal?

/u/ealing_ceiling on how many people are you out to?

I'm in a QPR, and so it often comes up as context for that November 09, 2023 at 11:21PM

/u/arespos on how many people are you out to?

ahh thats really cool! im autistic too so i get you there, im applying for jobs at the moment and just hoping the ones that seem nicest accept me omg yeah im glad you get it! my asexuality is so influenced by my being trans, so its not all not experiencing attraction as much as it is being sex-repulsed a lot of the time, so i know im a very atypical example of asexuality, and yet if i explained to someone what asexuality meant they would definitely get the wrong impression and assume my sexuality to be something its not, which is definitely a big reason i dont feel the need to come out tbh, especially to allocishets November 09, 2023 at 11:20PM

/u/Bearacolypse on how many people are you out to?

My husband and 2 friends. My best friend is aromantic but not Asexual so we compare talk about our problems a lot. As I am biromantic but universally asexual. My other friend is hypersexual buy struggles with romance. She has problems having deeper relationships beyond sex. November 09, 2023 at 11:19PM

/u/acelsior on Therapist said I don't know if I am asexual until I have tried being in a relationship?

Same thing as "You don't know if you're gay if you never dated a woman". Looks like you're getting a new therapist! November 09, 2023 at 11:16PM

/u/Tookoofox on How my ex reacted. How did your ex (if you have one) take it?

I Mean... Yeah. But y'all do get how much that must suck from the other side of things. Right? "Oh, no. See, I wanted to date you, but the idea of physical intimacy with you is fucking repulsive . So I faked interest in the one to get at the other." Like, even taking the most charitable possible view, that's manipulative. November 08, 2023 at 11:22PM