If you're 14 and nothing you're looking at is literally illegal (and I mean actual illegal images of real people, not like dark written works) I wouldn't worry too much about being 'addicted' to explicit content. It's normal to be horny at that age, it's the hormones. So long as you bear in mind that explicit content is fictional and relationships with other people are real and you shouldn't treat real relationships like the plot of explicit content it's fine to indulge. Explicit content and standard romantic content is a safe way of exploring your boundaries and what feels right to you, and then when you're more confident you can try and explore that with real people. You don't need to tie yourself down to one label for your entire life. Sexuality is a social construct, meaning it only exists in the confines of the society in which we live. That means there isn't one good and true label that fits all of a certain kind of person all t...

Sounds like the “therapist” thinks the only relationships that exist are sexual ones and that asexual people don’t have relationships and/or don’t have sex. This is BS. November 04, 2023 at 11:10PM

They focus on that one but the wiki here does appear briefly in the search results on screen. November 03, 2023 at 11:28PM

I don't think this makes sense to ask. There are soooooooo many factors that go into what makes someone feel like having sex, I don't think you can just put a number how much of it you'd be "ok" with. That sounds like "how much sex would you tolerate?" and that's honestly a gross question to think about. November 02, 2023 at 11:47PM

I (23f) met a guy (23m) on a dating app about a month ago. I really enjoyed talking to him and we talked almost everyday. We hit it off pretty fast and made plans to go on a date- well, the day we were supposed to go out I got in a huge fight with my best friend and was an emotional mess. I couldn’t stop crying and ended up staying late at work as well. I cancelled and told him I wasn’t in a good spot to date. He never responded, but 2.5 weeks later he texted me to see how I was doing. I was honest and told him I regretted canceling our date and that I was just in a bad spot that day, but that I really did want to go out. He was really sweet about the whole thing and told me that he understood and he was glad I was feeling better I asked if he was still interested and we went on our first date 3 days later. We hung out again last night, and before I left I asked if he wanted to go out this weekend and he said yes. So far- I feel like things are going well. He’s assured me that I don...

Do you guys have any advice on this situation? I met a girl and we’ve gone on 3 dates so far, that I though went well. On our last date she invited me into her apartment and we talked for a while and ended the night with a kiss (it was late and I had work super early the next day). While on our last date she mentioned wanting to go to a local place to see it. I asked if she would want to go the next time we’re off at the same time and she said she’d let me know. After all of this, her texts have been getting shorter and her replies more sporadic. Am I over thinking this situation or should I just go with the flow. Submitted November 02, 2023 at 12:12AM Do you guys have any advice on this situation?I met a girl and we’ve gone on 3 dates so far, that I though went well. On our last date she invited me into her apartment and we talked for a while and ended the night with a kiss (it was late and I had work super early the next day). While on our last date she mentioned wanting to...

I (24F) have been talking to this guy for 1 month, we are from the same city but have only talking through messages. Things were wonderful and he seemed interested, recently me and him started to run out of thinks to ask eatch other and the conversation died... Now I am questioning myself, should I ask if he is interested to go out with me (something casual) or should I just let it go. Thanks for all the input 😁 Ps. I have never dated anyone and have never been on a date before Submitted November 02, 2023 at 12:13AM I (24F) have been talking to this guy for 1 month, we are from the same city but have only talking through messages.Things were wonderful and he seemed interested, recently me and him started to run out of thinks to ask eatch other and the conversation died...Now I am questioning myself, should I ask if he is interested to go out with me (something casual) or should I just let it go.Thanks for all the input 😁Ps. I have never dated anyone and have never been on a d...