I 30f have matched with a guy 39m who ive matched with in the past but i guess it fizzled out. At first I was excited to start talking to him again. This time, we matched again and we never stopped talking, but he responds like once a day. Convo overall is pretty good though. So it's been a month of talking, I had pretty much given up on him asking me out. Most guys on the apps try to ask me out ASAP or if uninterested they'd likely ghost or let the convo die, so it's a bit weird. Now today he mentioned how I kept my weekend open so do I want to go for a drink tomorrow night (he asked like an hour ago it's Thursday night). At this point I was planning on going to a nice yoga class by myself or something. Do you think last minute dates are worth it or is he a waste of time? Submitted October 27, 2023 at 12:09AM I 30f have matched with a guy 39m who ive matched with in the past but i guess it fizzled out. At first I was excited to start talking to him again. This ...

Poland 🙃 October 25, 2023 at 11:24PM

Fictosexual is a closer definition to what OP is looking for October 25, 2023 at 11:23PM

Well, being ace was never a big deal in my friendgroup. But, that can of course vary from person to person. You should only tell your friends, if you are ready for it. It's when the thought about talking about it doesn't make you feel like something terrible might happen or when you feel especially comfortable with it. However, if you wish to come out and are unsure of their reactions, try to get a feel on what they think about asexuality. Maybe even play a bit "dumb", asking them "Hey, do you guys know about" asexuality"? " and then you will see if they do and what they know and think about it. It's like playing a +4 card in UNO. You can't lose when you put it down and it gives you security that you can get the color to finally lay down that one card you have AND eventually more rounds where you can strategize again, bringing you closer to a win. October 25, 2023 at 11:21PM

The US.... I'm embarrassed October 25, 2023 at 11:21PM

So I worked a few weeks at a summer camp with this girl. We got along pretty well. I was assigned to work with her a lot so we had many interactions. I thought she liked me a bit but I have to admit she gave some mixed signals. The positive signals were that she was perfectly fine spending time alone with me. For example because we worked together I taught her 1 on 1 how to do a lot of things. Also at the end of the two weeks she wanted to hug me like twice which I thought was weird. From my experience women only act that way with their own gender. But she also had some negative signs. One time when I was going to add her to a photo sharing app that my other coworkers and I shared I asked for her number so I could send her the invite. She said she didn't have her phone on her and she didn't have her number memorized. So I saw her last week at an fall event. We talked a bit and had some positive interactions. When I was leaving I gave her my number. It's been a few days an...

(35F) (58M) I randomly met someone while walking my dog one day and he asked me if I’d like to get coffee or lunch sometime. We exchanged numbers and 5 days later we went out to dinner. Prior to those 5 days, he called me everyday for 4 days and we would just talk for about 10 minutes. Obviously talked with him on the day we went out on our date. He called me the next day. Then I didn’t hear from him for a day then he called me everyday for 3 days. I sent him a text of a picture of something I made on Saturday and he replied quickly. We exchanged a few texts. He had plans Saturday so I didn’t want to bother him. I haven’t heard from him since then pretty much. I’m unsure if either he lost interest, was only looking for a hookup or maybe he felt I wasn’t interested since he was the one initiating the phone calls. Sometimes I feel confused on what to do here because of how “men should be taking the lead” “if he wanted to he would” I really have no problem making a call or whatever but I...