I went on 6 dates with a woman that seemed super interested and then she ended it abruptly and I’m still questioning why. Background: She was married for 5 years to a guy she dated for 8-10 years and was divorced 2-3 years ago. The dates were going well. We were affectionate, making out and holding hands. After the 4th date we had three dates in the future planned. Then after the 5th date she asked if I wanted to come back to her place after the next date. I was excited because it seemed like this was going somewhere. Then on the 6th date, she didn’t invite me back, and then texted to end it when I got home. She said she “wasn’t feeling the chemistry that she wants to feel.” She said I was “kind, lovely, compassionate, and endearing.” I told her I was confused because she seemed so interested wanting to invite me back to her place. She normally rode her scooter to all of our dates, and on this date she took and Uber. She still planning right up until meeting me that night for us to...

I thought this too for awhile!! October 15, 2023 at 10:47PM

How long should you get to know a guy before throwing in the towel? It’s been almost two months and still I feel no spark or emotional connection. We don’t really have anything in common besides wanting to screw each other every chance we get. He’s more of a friend vibe. When should I have the talk with him to check in where he’s at with things? Do I give it more time or should I already know at this point? Submitted October 15, 2023 at 12:13AM How long should you get to know a guy before throwing in the towel? It’s been almost two months and still I feel no spark or emotional connection. We don’t really have anything in common besides wanting to screw each other every chance we get. He’s more of a friend vibe. When should I have the talk with him to check in where he’s at with things? Do I give it more time or should I already know at this point?

absolutely agree but others seem to not get it October 13, 2023 at 11:33PM

Tbh when I was 14 I felt physically ill in sex ed, left one activity crying, etc. I don’t really know why it repulsed me so much at the time and I don’t really have any advice other than that it gets better, at least for me I got over it within ~2 years so hopefully it will for you too :/ October 12, 2023 at 11:17PM

Maybe look into grey spectrum? Demi or something might fit your experience and help answer your question October 12, 2023 at 11:10PM

Okay, so I started college a month and a half ago, and about 3 weeks ago I was having a really horrible morning and this guy (ill call him E) looked at me then looked down and gave a huge open smile, I fell immediately. So the week after I was walking to the bathroom and he let out the loudest sigh and then after class he actually came up and talked to me, he laughed and smiled at my dumb jokes and he always kept eye contact with me and then he did the thing where he acted like he didn't hear me and leaned in closer and said "hmm?" Still keeping eye contact the whole time, then the next week our eye contact was strong and we were smiling at eachother the whole class. But the previous two times he purposely avoided eye contact, looking at the ceiling and not talking to me after class besides "see you on Thursday" he said this with his back turned to me. And then yesterday I explained at the end of class some personal problems with the teacher and he overheard an...