I thought this too for awhile!! October 15, 2023 at 10:47PM

How long should you get to know a guy before throwing in the towel? It’s been almost two months and still I feel no spark or emotional connection. We don’t really have anything in common besides wanting to screw each other every chance we get. He’s more of a friend vibe. When should I have the talk with him to check in where he’s at with things? Do I give it more time or should I already know at this point? Submitted October 15, 2023 at 12:13AM How long should you get to know a guy before throwing in the towel? It’s been almost two months and still I feel no spark or emotional connection. We don’t really have anything in common besides wanting to screw each other every chance we get. He’s more of a friend vibe. When should I have the talk with him to check in where he’s at with things? Do I give it more time or should I already know at this point?

absolutely agree but others seem to not get it October 13, 2023 at 11:33PM

Tbh when I was 14 I felt physically ill in sex ed, left one activity crying, etc. I don’t really know why it repulsed me so much at the time and I don’t really have any advice other than that it gets better, at least for me I got over it within ~2 years so hopefully it will for you too :/ October 12, 2023 at 11:17PM

Maybe look into grey spectrum? Demi or something might fit your experience and help answer your question October 12, 2023 at 11:10PM

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