Hi guys, So basically I had a crush on this girl I’ve known her since like 8 years now. Now we in our 20s n I moved away from the town we were in. Why does she suddenly add me on snap saying she liked me but was shy? Is she playing me? Nothing really changed on me but maybe my locs lol. Submitted May 28, 2023 at 02:10AM Hi guys,So basically I had a crush on this girl I’ve known her since like 8 years now.Now we in our 20s n I moved away from the town we were in.Why does she suddenly add me on snap saying she liked me but was shy?Is she playing me?Nothing really changed on me but maybe my locs lol.

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I am a 30 y/o single dad. For the past 10 years i have been completely content on just focusinc on my daughyer and living ny best life. Latley i have had this growing urge to find a female companion. It more then a urge now. It has to happen. This is so much different then dating in high school. How do i get the ball rolling? I dont expect a miracle. Submitted May 28, 2023 at 01:13AM I am a 30 y/o single dad. For the past 10 years i have been completely content on just focusinc on my daughyer and living ny best life. Latley i have had this growing urge to find a female companion. It more then a urge now. It has to happen. This is so much different then dating in high school. How do i get the ball rolling? I dont expect a miracle.

No bro, I agree with you lol May 27, 2023 at 11:06PM

"Average men" (no ones actually average or ugly, we just have messed up beauty standards but I'll still use the word average just to be dramatic) guys who arent 10/10 to the majority of women are a 11/10 to me. I 18f am pretty confident in my looks, I wouldn't say I'm insecure at all. I'm tall, slim with really long dark hair and a pale complexion with blue eyes. so I'm not insecure butttt if a really attractive man slides into my dating site dms, I ignore him. Simply because I wanna be taken seriously. I feel like a man out of my league wouldn't take me seriously at all. So i only prefer men who are average or a little on the lower side of average as I feel more comfortable. I also feel like average guys have more drive to chase me/win me and I love it. It's so cute. I mean obviously I want my future man to be a little active, take care of himself and groom himself as well as have good hygiene, good habits and values, is open about his boundaries...

Should I be worried about it she used to respond fast but now she always says she's busy or asleep and I know I might be over thinking it but I just wanna know if it's normal for gf to take all day to respond Submitted May 27, 2023 at 02:13AM Should I be worried about it she used to respond fast but now she always says she's busy or asleep and I know I might be over thinking it but I just wanna know if it's normal for gf to take all day to respond

It sucks that's happening to you, id say clear and firm boundary setting will be your best bet. "Im not looking to do or talk about anything sexual, that makes me uncomfortable" "I don't wanna talk about that" "I dont want to receive/send sexual pictures" "That comment make me uncomfortable" You wanna try shut it down right away in clear terms if someone if overstepping. When people step over that line repeatedly after you've stated those boundaries its fine to just ignore or block them, they aren't entitled to talk w you if they aren't gonna respect you. Boundaries need to be enforcable/enforced to be properly effective, so be clear and firm w what you are comfortable and not comfortable with, and then makes sure you enforce that boundary by disengaging with that person or if you feel it was an honest mistake restating your boundaries and giving a warning and then disengaging if they continue w the topic. Its not you...